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Koffing
July 15th, 2011, 12:08 PM
Hello everybody,

For the ones who didn't read my first topic, I am gay and I like one of my best friends. You guys told me that I had to wait and tell it when the right moment is there. But things are gona a bit differend as I wanted to...

Well, it is hollyday here now and we all went to other places so we won't see each other for a month :(:(:(

But after that it turns out that we maybe aren't in the same classes anymore next year :( And I'm super scared that we won't see each other any more after that :(

So I want to tell him how much I like him, but I don't know how I really can tell him that...

I have thought to say the next things;
''Hello ****,

I have something importand to tell you. I trust you and hope you will understand this.

I have some issues with my sexuality and I really like you. I know that this sound a but strange but i just wanted to tell you. I hope you understand me ;)''

Do you think that this is the right thing to say to him? And plz don't tell me to wait any longer cuz I can't... :(

Thank you in advance and sorry for the long post ;)

mrbob360
July 15th, 2011, 01:18 PM
i did the exact same thing with my friend i was like **** i sort of love you and he was like ok no problem hes fine with gay and bi it doesn't bother him so i would go with the direct approach it can go either way buts thats life there will always a right or a left

Koffing
July 15th, 2011, 04:31 PM
I know that a mail or something isn't a very good way to tell but I don't know how else I could tell him as I'm very shy. Today I was alone with him and I didn't get the courage to tell him.:( (i hate myself right now... :() Are there any other ways instead of eay-to-eay that I can use to tell him that i like him?

thanks ;)

Apollo.
July 15th, 2011, 05:00 PM
Maybe just try and come straight out with it, he might be ok with it. Let us know how it goes:)

mrbob360
July 16th, 2011, 07:04 AM
I know that a mail or something isn't a very good way to tell but I don't know how else I could tell him as I'm very shy. Today I was alone with him and I didn't get the courage to tell him.:( (i hate myself right now... :() Are there any other ways instead of eay-to-eay that I can use to tell him that i like him?

thanks ;)

well you could try chatting to him over skpye or msn then when u see him in real life ask him do you get that message sent i you or something like that

LifeisLife
July 16th, 2011, 07:30 AM
Im not gay but bi but the way i told my best friend was by just saying: "****** i need to tell you something... i'm bi" and she was fine with it, then i told another close friend it too and he was completely fine with it