how do i know if im bi or not

[fia19]

im just soo confused about everything, i no i like guys but girls have always done something for me and when i look at girls its like when im looking at a guy ive been struggling with this for soo long now and its really gettin me down now if anyone has any advise id be thankful

[Abigballofdust]

I'm confused by your post.
All I'm gonna say to you is: don't call yourself anything, until you're done with the crazy hormones part of your puberty and by that I mean 'till you're 17.
It is totally unimportant if you're straight, bi or gay. At least for now you could be straight one day but into men the other.
Also, there's no 100% straight person. There's always something homoerotic if not homosexual in everyone. So calling the whole planet 'bi' is not a mistake either.

[Kujiro]

i would use a game of blackjack to describe this,
Lets assume you are holding an Ace,
When you get a king you get blackjack.
When you get a queen you get blackjack.

The point im bringing across would be, it does not matter be it guy or girl.
and putting aside stereotype.
Whats most important is being truthful to yourself.
Im sure towards the end of the road. it would be alot clearer to you.
Cheers gd luck :)

[tyler17OKC]

Both above posts are very good! Just don't lie to yourself about who you are.

[jessehs]

are you emotionally attracted to either?

[Foamy]

i would use a game of blackjack to describe this,
Lets assume you are holding an Ace,
When you get a king you get blackjack.
When you get a queen you get blackjack.

that is the best analogy ive heard of to describe something like this. Anyway.. U would be the only person to know if u are bi or not. Let ur hormones take their course and go from there.

[AncientCatastrophe]

I agree with all of them :D
Labeling yourself won't do any good if you feel uncomfortable about it, you're still young so live your life

[Kujiro]

that is the best analogy ive heard of to describe something like this. Anyway.. U would be the only person to know if u are bi or not. Let ur hormones take their course and go from there.

This post was made on my 2nd day on VT,
Yea you are right, I can't find a better analogy to describe.
And to OP, take your time on this one. There's no one pacing you, and it's not something that you would realize overnight, some take half their lives to reach this conclusion.

Remember realizing and coming out are 2 entirely different entities.

Good luck
*smile*

[ExhibitG]

I'm confused by your post.
All I'm gonna say to you is: don't call yourself anything, until you're done with the crazy hormones part of your puberty and by that I mean 'till you're 17.

I'd just like to point out that I am 17 and in no way done with the "crazy hormones part of puberty". so it doesn't matter what age. you'll know eventually.

[twotall]

I'd just like to point out that I am 17 and in no way done with the "crazy hormones part of puberty". so it doesn't matter what age. you'll know eventually.

well everyone post is right and everyone is diffrent with hormones i was the same way at 17 but now i know what i am for sure but when 15 i didnt jump then gun i just waited to see what i really like

[nameless12]

its really simple :) if you have sexual an emotional feelings towards a guy and a firl, you bi, if its only for a guy then your probably gay, and if its only for a girl you straight, and if you hace sexual feelings towards some guys and want to do stuff, but have emotional feelings towards girls. then your just curious :D hope i helped.