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FullyAlive
July 15th, 2011, 04:45 AM
This is probably going to come off as really weird or needy. But I don't know, I've been doing quite well, 4 days so far, and I don't particularly have a reason to break but urges and my lack of motivation means it's getting harder. My mother and friends basically know, so I don't have to lie about why I'm wearing long sleeves etc. And with them all knowing it's made self harming actually a hell of a lot easier.
So basically what I'm asking for is some kind of encouragement? I want to be strong but I need some motivation? ><
xdancing_for_rainx
July 15th, 2011, 02:29 PM
It's great that you've gone 4 days so far- I think that's a pretty good accomplishment :) I'm sure everyone just needs a little motivation sometimes to keep going and whatnot<3 I'm glad it's easier for you now with your friends and family knowing about harming... maybe that'll help a bit.
You can make it :) You're doing such a great job already, so I'm sure you'll get far past those 4 days you have so far. I think it's really good you're asking for some encouragement(: And even if you don't manage to not harm or anything, it doesn't mean you've failed. You'll be able to pick yourself up again for another try<3 Hang in there- You're doing great!
love is louder
July 15th, 2011, 05:50 PM
hang in there buddy! i know exactly how you feel. i normally get to about a week and im really proud of my self but i cant share it with anyone which makes me thing "whats the point" then i do it, then im back at the beginning again! but that doesnt need to be you because you have the support there. so use it.
good luck and i hope you dont give in!
catch up with you later.
FullyAlive
July 15th, 2011, 09:42 PM
I'm glad it's easier for you now with your friends and family knowing about harming... maybe that'll help a bit.
I meant its a lot easier to cut now, no hiding or anything, so i don't even have that as motivation.
Thank you both for replying, I feel really stupid for posting this, i guess i wanted reminding that i could do it. :/ I'm still not sure i can tbh. But i have to try?
xdancing_for_rainx
July 16th, 2011, 11:21 PM
I meant its a lot easier to cut now, no hiding or anything, so i don't even have that as motivation.
Thank you both for replying, I feel really stupid for posting this, i guess i wanted reminding that i could do it. :/ I'm still not sure i can tbh. But i have to try?
Ahh, I see now :/ Sorry for misunderstanding that...
You can do it :) It's good you're asking for support. Keep it up, and I know you'll be able to make it through without harming(:
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