Advice

[Werwer12]

Alright So I have a friend and many many years ago when we were like in grade three we played a game of truth or dare. It got dirty and we loved it! We would sneak around and play it all the time! We were giving eachother blowjObs and handjobs all the time! Anyways I'm in grade 9 now n we still do it occasionally but last time I asked him to suck me he said no :( what does this mean? what should I do? Btw I'm not gay I'm just phiscLly attracted to some guys

[Natedoggsr71]

Hmm maby he's not comfortable with doing it or not in the mood....sometimes I could be like that when im not in the mood.....so this shouldnt mean much unless he just grown out of it...

[maxii]

Natedoggsr71 sound about right. maybe he grown out of in or was'nt in the mood. because me and my friend are like that at pointz we just dont feel like it. then next day. BAM! :D

[Nicky97]

I doubt that this is a sexual issue. It sounds like any other part of human existence.

So many things. Since it was so good for so long, well past the point of sexual/social awareness, I doubt that it's a simple or a serious thing. It's going to stop, almost surely, at some point, right?

Next time you think he might be in the mood, ask again. Follow time-honored patterns between the two or you.

I think it's ill-advised for you to even acknowledge the change, much less question it or assign blame. If he is changing, it's up to him to do start the talking, whatever he is comfortable with.

[SWMG]

Maybe he doesnt feel that comfortable anymore you should ask him what happened

[SportsNutChase]

Risky with friends..thats the chance you run. I havent and really dont want to.

[michael.95]

Next time don't ask, just give him one then he might return the favor.

[ashdaniel]

maybe he is older or didnt feel like to do it agian

[youwonthegame]

Perhaps he grew out of it. That happens a lot, and even though it's frustrating and often disappointing, dwelling on it won't do you any good. On the other hand, he might just not have been in the mood when you asked him. I wouldn't assume the worst just yet, but just tread cautiously.

[noturnback]

Well back then it wasn't anything really but now he is probably embarrassed by it.

[DerBear]

Well maybe he is just no longer into it like maybe he is now no longer into this kind of stuff it happens. Just read some of the other threads like this and you will see that some people are just grow out of it. thats all.

If it is still annoying you try to dicuss that matter ask him direct if he still want to do the "dirty truth or dares"...If he says not then accept that.