I love my boyfriend

[kaitlynn_george_1996]

I love my boyfriend so much,but every time he leave and go somewhere I think he is cheating on me but I dont know why..And sometimes my boyfriend lies to me like when I firsst started to dating him he said that that he was not a virgin but a month later in are relationship he told me that he was a virgin.. And then he lied that I was his 8th girlfriend but I was really his 3rd girlfriend..This girl that he use to talk to was trying to break me and him up and this girl was calling me all kinds of names so i told my boyfriend to stop talking to her and he said i promise i wont never talk to her again so like 3 weeks later he broke my promise and he was talking to her..Atfer when he said he wasnt going to talk to her because she was trying to break me and him up..So i dont know if he is still talking to her..:confused:

[Angel Androgynous]

I don't think that you guys are in a very stable relationship. You keep posting threads complaining about your boyfriend. Try to talk to him about it. He is lying to you in a weird way. O.o Why would he tell you that he's not a virgin and that you are his 8th girlfriend? Is he trying to impress you? Because that isn't impressive at all.... Did you ask him why he's lying to you like that?

[Jennifer's Ashes]

Look, Hun, WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM? sorry to be blunt, but from what I can gather he is
a) only in it for the sex
b) cheating
c) going behind your back
d) constantly making you mad!

Honest, I don't think he's worth it. Talk to him about it. But it doesn't seem like he's committed to your relationship and to be honest I don't know why you're still with him.

Good luck with this one, I don't think he'll go easy.

[Angel Androgynous]

Look, Hun, WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM? sorry to be blunt, but from what I can gather he is
a) only in it for the sex
b) cheating
c) going behind your back
d) constantly making you mad!

Honest, I don't think he's worth it. Talk to him about it. But it doesn't seem like he's committed to your relationship and to be honest I don't know why you're still with him.

Good luck with this one, I don't think he'll go easy.

Bravo. Couldn't have said it better.

[SosbanFach]

I'm sorry, but I'm with Genevieve on this, you should leave him. Given all the threads you've posted on similar topics, you seem to have many misgivings about this relationship, and that generally means somethings not right. I understand why you don't want to accept this, but I'm not convinced that I'd trust him. Most of what I want to say has already been posted. I'm sorry, but it has to end. He's just not treating you right.

[kaitlynn_george_1996]

He does treat me right,but i have a hard time trusted him..

[Angel Androgynous]

He does treat me right,but i have a hard time trusted him..

He's treating you right by not at least trying to be less perverted, lying to you, and making you mad?

[Derek_001]

she dont trust me cause shes been cheated on so many times b4 and i completely respect that and understand that ive been cheated on in bolth my past relationships but i trust my baby girl 120% but i know its gona take some time and yes i do treat her right n im gona slow it down on the perverted stuff that'll help we've had sex b4 so i dont need to be (as) perverted but we'll work it out 4-26-11 and it aint ending there... :) love ya baby girl

[Sage]

she dont trust me cause shes been cheated on so many times b4 and i completely respect that and understand that ive been cheated on in bolth my past relationships but i trust my baby girl 120% but i know its gona take some time and yes i do treat her right n im gona slow it down on the perverted stuff that'll help we've had sex b4 so i dont need to be (as) perverted but we'll work it out 4-26-11 and it aint ending there... :) love ya baby girl

If you were working it out, she wouldn't be posting all these threads. If anything, you being so defensive only makes you look like more of (what everyone else is saying) a creep. He doth protest too much, I think.

Also, you've already been told by other people and a mod to stop hijacking threads. It undermines the point of an advice forum and it's really fucking petty. Fuck off and post your own threads if it's such a big problem for you.

To the OP: I think the conflict you're facing her is between your heart (your feelings for him) and your sense of reason (knowing the things he does.) This might not be a popular opinion, but don't go with your heart. 9 times out of 10, girls in bad relationships will just think they can change their boyfriend's bad habits and problems by sticking around with them. It isn't going to happen. You shouldn't have to put up with shit like that in a relationship. Putting up with that many poor qualities just because you feel like you really need to be in a relationship speaks very poorly of your self-respect. Don't be a floor mat.

From all the threads you're posting, it really seems like this relationship is on rocky grounds and not worth all the trouble you're going through.

[RoseyCadaver]

"Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in the person's reflection."

If you can't trust him(which it seems very much so) then you can't trust him.A relationship isn't anything with out a little trust.From what I heard about the being horny all the time thing,well ,honey, it doesn't look to good from my(and many others) view.Yes, you may love him,but sometimes you are very much blinded by love,and it seems in this situation the negatives out way the benefits.Sorry :/.

[LuckyLuke]

He lies to you. Breaks promises. Only wants sex.

Why are you here? Why are you with him?

YOU know something's wrong (if you didn't, you wouldn't be questioning it here) and you're clearly not happy. So, why are you with him?

You're a very attractive young lady with sweet eyes and flowing hair. You seem nice enough to be around and want only the best for others. You can find a man who really appreciates what you have to offer.

[sunnycloud78]

He lies to you. Breaks promises. Only wants sex.
break up.

[HaydenM]

He lies to you. Breaks promises. Only wants sex.

Why are you here? Why are you with him?

YOU know something's wrong (if you didn't, you wouldn't be questioning it here) and you're clearly not happy. So, why are you with him?

You're a very attractive young lady with sweet eyes and flowing hair. You seem nice enough to be around and want only the best for others. You can find a man who really appreciates what you have to offer.


I agree fully with Luke, obviously you are having issues with the relationship and YOU don't like it. And the fact that each of your relationship issues you have posted have been met by an excuse by your boyfriend. It really doesn't seem like a healthy relationship.