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Hezzy
July 14th, 2011, 04:48 PM
over the past six months all my friends have started leaving me, it all started when my school decided to have a musical and all my friends joined but me, it was in conjunction with an all female school and they had to all go to rehearsals in their free time.

They all started to get together and hang around and i was never invited, when i asked if they wanted to hang out they all said they cant because they are rehearsing or something like that, eventually they started to ignore me all together and wont even say hi to me they just ignore me its just really sad and depressing, they all hangout with each other.

This is made all the more worse because i am terrible at making new friends, i have no idea how to start, what is wrong and right when asking questions and planning things, i am extremely shy and i just dont know what to say :(, please help me i dont know what i have to do :(

Solo Rider
July 14th, 2011, 04:55 PM
They weren't your friends. They were users. And now they are using other peoples.
Be happy make real friends. And it's not easy but screw em.

Angel Androgynous
July 14th, 2011, 05:00 PM
As time progresses, friends that weren't meant to be drift away...it's all part of teen life. (: Don't worry, meet new people, talk to people! I feel like I can't make friends, but then I talk to a person and we hit it off and we become friends. Try it. I know it's not easy, but with a little effort, it can be achieved. Best of luck. <3

Hezzy
July 14th, 2011, 05:03 PM
How do you meet new people though?

Solo Rider
July 14th, 2011, 05:08 PM
Umm anyone your age you see or are around a bit talk to em?

Just be like "Yo, was up?"

Angel Androgynous
July 14th, 2011, 05:24 PM
How do you meet new people though?

In school, in class. Sit next to someone new? Say hi, talk about what interests you ask what their favorite band is and so on. I had a classmate in 5th grade and in 6th grade we were like: Oh hey, I know you! You had the same class as me in elementary! Then we realized we like the same music and we are best friends as of today. (:

Solo Rider
July 14th, 2011, 05:33 PM
In school, in class. Sit next to someone new? Say hi, talk about what interests you ask what their favorite band is and so on. I had a classmate in 5th grade and in 6th grade we were like: Oh hey, I know you! You had the same class as me in elementary! Then we realized we like the same music and we are best friends as of today. (:

See it's that easy.... Try it :)

DJZS
July 14th, 2011, 11:36 PM
Well i'll always be your friend :)

DoctorNewbie
July 14th, 2011, 11:46 PM
Make new friends. They only used you. How do you start?

"Hi, I'm (name). How are you?"

Voldemort
July 15th, 2011, 12:21 AM
well maybe their just really busy, i was in a school play once n that was my busiest tym in my lyf.

Unsolvedmind
July 15th, 2011, 12:28 AM
I know how you feel I will have to lose all my best friends including my girlfriend <3 in 13 days cause i am moving to Florida =( and I will have to make new friends in High School :(

Solo Rider
July 15th, 2011, 02:07 AM
Ouch :'(

LifeisLife
July 15th, 2011, 09:36 AM
Most of my friends are from school but some are also from my hobbies (sports)... For sports i started out by just saying hi and then talking about speeds, times and what their favorite stroke is (i do swimming) and things like that... For my friends in school its a completely different thing ofcourse! I got most of my friends within the first week because of the classes we had together.... First off I would ALMOST come late so that most people were there already so I could see who's in our class then just sit next to someone new and say hi but in other cases i pretended i didnt get what the teacher was explaining and asked the person next to me about it... Some of my friends came from school camp though, my roommates (:

anyways: try making new friends and get over your old ones or try to talk to them about it... I would suggest (when making new friends) to first off start by saying hi, im (name) but afterwards just let them talk if they have something to say and see if you click (: i really hope this helped and that you feel better soon!

davisbr2
July 15th, 2011, 01:24 PM
just start talking to new people

XxMurderedKissesxX
July 18th, 2011, 07:29 PM
Some people werent ment to stay in ur life,and by the sounds of it,ur better off. Ive had friends that ive been besties with for eight years,then ive had people who act all nice,and pretend to be friends,and they dump u out of no where. These people are NOT worth ur time or energy. If they cant be bothered,why the hell should u? I know it sux trying to make friends when ur shy,i moved to a whole new city and didnt have anyone I knew to lean on,plus it doesnt help im super quiet until i get to know the person. Just try to be friendly,and dont let ur shyness come off as mean or unfriendly. Things will work out. It just takes alittle time. Be patient,ull find true friends who will ALWAYS have ur back.