No Privacy!

[Solvez18]

for the past 7 years of having to live with my nana has been so annoying when it comes to the time my room is treated like an attic. i have shifted rooms twice and she still stores stuff in it. i can tell u right now i have 2.5 letre coke and lemonade bottles in my closet as well as old lights, some wine, old clothes that she owns and many others i also have magazines and sets of beer at the end of my bed. beside my entrance to the room is a old ironing board and a heater. (Read next post text issues)

also at the end of my bed is a set of drawers that i dont own and im not allowed to use. she has completely invaded my privacy and promised to take everything out last year. the worst thing is i have the smallest room in my house n she doesnt care its at the point where im pissed off and dont care anymore what do i do?

[Kaius]

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[alley]

Hey, I have a similar problem actually! I have a double bed and my parents store all their stuff underneath it, the only wardrobe in my room also belongs too my parents and has all their stuff in it, and there is also a large chest of drawers belonging to them and a couple of shelves. I feel your pain!
Really all you can do is explain too her how you feel. Tell her how it bothers you and how you want more of your own space. If she insists all the stuff stays in your room then ask yourself why. Is there no other room in the house? (that is the reason for my parents putting their things in my room) is that the only place she can put all her stuff? If so, then you may just have too deal with it, as annoying as it is. Though she has promised you in the past, which suggests she can move it. Maybe compromise. Get her too get rid of half of the stuff, and then leave asking her too get rid of the rest of it for a while, ask her again in a few months, and she may be more willing. eventually it could all go.
good luck with it all, hope it works out for you :)

[PerpetualImperfexion]

Have you tried confronting her and asking her respectively to move her stuff to another location? You mentioned that she promised to move the stuff out last year. Have you recently confronted her about this promise?

[JaredIsStupid]

if they put coke in my room i would of drunk it

[Weeping]

I guess the only thing you can do is talk to her? Maybe ask her if she really needs to keep all the things or if there's somewhere else she can put them?

Tell her how you feel about it, like you want more space of your own?

Have you asked her about the promise later on? Maybe she just forgot it or something?

[davisbr2]

ask her to move it or move it yourself