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Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 01:59 AM
I have to get a physical in a month and I am extremely nervous. I hate being naked in front of my doc hes a 40 year old man and I am not comfortable naked in the same room with him. :/ Any advice?
pageplant77
July 14th, 2011, 02:01 AM
Suggest a female nurse.
Either that or just pretend he's a lady.
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:05 AM
My mom wont let me, and it will take a lot than pretending to be comfortable. :(
RoseyCadaver
July 14th, 2011, 02:05 AM
He is a doctor,don't worry.He has seen lots of bodies,I'm sure he won't see anything then normal.
Try not to stress it,I'm sure they didn't hire a sexual predator.
death_to_my_heart
July 14th, 2011, 02:09 AM
He is a doctor,don't worry.He has seen lots of bodies,I'm sure he won't see anything then normal.
Try not to stress it,I'm sure they didn't hire a sexual predator.
true true
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:09 AM
Yea your right Salt, but I get to the point where I could cry.
death_to_my_heart
July 14th, 2011, 02:11 AM
well i would just say dont worrie ir think about like getting a b/j that helped me bc i had the same problem
RoseyCadaver
July 14th, 2011, 02:12 AM
Why are you to the point of crying :(?Are you insecure or just scared to be viewed by the man?
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:14 AM
I think I will make my mom get me a female doc. Hopefully :/
death_to_my_heart
July 14th, 2011, 02:15 AM
I think I will make my mom get me a female doc. Hopefully :/
well if u dought it then i would just say dont strees try your hardest and also just think about something else
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:15 AM
Salt, it's both
RoseyCadaver
July 14th, 2011, 02:18 AM
Well you shouldn't worry what the doctor thinks about your appearance,I'm sure he doesn't care.He has seen lots of people I'm sure he isn't going to tag you as that ugly kid.
You shouldn't worry about his age or gender,he is a doctor,his only job there is to make sure you are all right,I promise.
Side Note---->I thank you for actually using my name (Salt)instead of adding the secret part :P.
DerBear
July 14th, 2011, 02:20 AM
Well TBH how will being infront of a female doc or nurse help?
What if she is hot?
And why are you at the point of crying
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:23 AM
No Salt, Idk if he thinks I am ugly. I am not comfortable with his hands anywhere near my penis/balls. :/
RoseyCadaver
July 14th, 2011, 02:24 AM
He grabs your "dick/balls " to make sure you are healthy,and growing right.It's not to play with you.Don't worry.
DerBear
July 14th, 2011, 02:25 AM
No Salt, Idk if he thinks I am ugly. I am not comfortable with his hands anywhere near my penis/balls. :/
Well i dont think he is going to feel you up in a sense that he will pedo you.
You need to relax
Think about it what if so,ething was wrong i.e you had an infection he would be able to see it and deal with it....The health benifits way out the cons
Voldemort
July 14th, 2011, 02:30 AM
well good luck!!! :)
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:32 AM
I guess I will just change docs, Thx for the advice guys.
DerBear
July 14th, 2011, 02:34 AM
I guess I will just change docs, Thx for the advice guys.
How does changing docs help?
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 02:45 AM
I'd rather have a female doc.
DerBear
July 14th, 2011, 03:29 AM
I suppose but what if she is hot?
You may get a little happy in the downstairs department
RoseyCadaver
July 14th, 2011, 03:31 AM
Does it really matter if you have a female or male?They'll both view you the same.I'd say why change.I just get what ever doctor there is.
jonjon1998
July 14th, 2011, 06:11 AM
I just had a physical. My doc is a guy. I would NOT want a female. Tbh it's so quick it's no big deal. I was never actually naked. He asked me to pull my pants to my knees and he was done with that part in like 30 seconds. Not exaggerating :)
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 10:32 AM
I suppose but what if she is hot?
You may get a little happy in the downstairs department
Yea, but who cares at least its not a guy. :D
Philleeep
July 14th, 2011, 11:09 AM
Thank God we don't have them in the UK but just imagine him as a blob or a robot that just checks you too see if your okay :) and plus i'd rather see a guy than get a boner in front of a woman, wait im bi :P i'd get one either way :)
cwwdr95
July 14th, 2011, 01:56 PM
Mate im sure it will go ok. If you get a boner you get a boner its not then end of the world :d
josh1817ua
July 14th, 2011, 02:51 PM
just relax, stay calm and it will be over before you know it
i have had several myself, it not that bad
he has probably seen thousands of other guys and woun't phase he at all, even if you get hard
SosbanFach
July 14th, 2011, 03:03 PM
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skater94
July 14th, 2011, 03:08 PM
Thank God we don't have them in the UK but just imagine him as a blob or a robot that just checks you too see if your okay :) and plus i'd rather see a guy than get a boner in front of a woman, wait im bi :P i'd get one either way :)
I never quite understand the concept of checkups in the States. We don't have this in Canada as well. Thank god.
Pancakes
July 14th, 2011, 03:48 PM
Well you're guys check ups are screwed up, because if you have a hernia or a infection you won't know till it kills you or severly hurts you. :)
Solo Rider
July 14th, 2011, 03:52 PM
Wow glad I never had to do that :(
Good luck...
madjoker525
July 14th, 2011, 04:34 PM
i used to get nervous before physicals too, but the person is a professional, trained in his/her field of work, and (you hope) is doing their job and nothing more
Natedoggsr71
July 14th, 2011, 08:06 PM
Ahh don't worry about it they just check if your healthy nothing else they don't care about size or anything there just doing there job.
LuckyLuke
July 14th, 2011, 08:40 PM
They've seen thousands of bodies thousands of times. They've touched so many guys "units" yours really won't phase them.
But quite frankly, think about how awful it is for the doctor. He's the one who has to check some random young mans genitals, feeling crevices he really doesn't want to, just to make sure YOU'RE healthy. They don't want to do it, it's for you.
Michael Anthony
July 14th, 2011, 11:59 PM
because i play sports all year long i'm always getting a physical for one reason or another so i'm really used to them
if you're nervous maybe having your mom or dad go in with you would help. that's what i do
Unsolvedmind
July 15th, 2011, 12:36 AM
Well pancakes what do you need help today? xD
You should just go in and get er done (larry the cable guy) and it will all be done and over with :) :D ;)
skater94
July 15th, 2011, 01:09 AM
Well you're guys check ups are screwed up, because if you have a hernia or a infection you won't know till it kills you or severly hurts you. :)
I probably had that done once in my life. The other time I had a check up was a concussion check up. But schools teach us how to self exam ourselves...go figure.
Buckhunter
July 15th, 2011, 02:02 AM
i just had one done today. it's no big deal. he just tells u to lower your pants, he barely even touches you and your done in under 30 seconds. the only akward thing for me is i just started shaving and i guess he assumed that im sexually active and he just came right out and asked me if i use condoms (i was there alone)
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