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MmBeans
July 13th, 2011, 09:30 AM
So I am 13 and I have never liked anybody. Both of my parents had crushes before I am. How do you know when you like somebody? What is it like? Why don't I? Whats weird is I don't really care or have a want to...

ivanori
July 13th, 2011, 10:43 AM
I'm not going lie, it is a little weird that you haven't. But it's not the end of the world either. This can be a huge psychological problem but it's probably just you never finding someone who is your type and caring enough to look.
When you get a crush you feel really nervous around the person and think of them all the time, you want to be around them but are too scared to and you often feel the need to impress them. If the relationships grows the butterflies usually go away, but you still care for the person in a deep way.

LuckyLuke
July 13th, 2011, 05:02 PM
It's different for everyone...

For me when I saw my first "real" girlfriend (whom I'm still with) I was introduced to her by a cousin who was friends with her and there was a moment, just a moment when our eyes met and we smiled at one another. I introduced myself and she did the same. I felt a warm feeling come over me and then started talking to her.

By my understanding, a lot of other people just get that overwhelming horny feeling because they're attracted to someone so they ask them out.



As for my first crush, I had that when I was about 14... it really varies for everyone. Don't worry about it :).

Cudder
July 13th, 2011, 07:59 PM
You shouldn't worry. Love will come soon. It will be that person you can't keep your eye off of

Solo Rider
July 13th, 2011, 08:01 PM
I'm not going lie, it is a little weird that you haven't. But it's not the end of the world either. This can be a huge psychological problem but it's probably just you never finding someone who is your type and caring enough to look.
When you get a crush you feel really nervous around the person and think of them all the time, you want to be around them but are too scared to and you often feel the need to impress them. If the relationships grows the butterflies usually go away, but you still care for the person in a deep way.

I have never felt like that before....

jonjon1998
July 13th, 2011, 08:13 PM
So I am 13 and I have never liked anybody. Both of my parents had crushes before I am. How do you know when you like somebody? What is it like? Why don't I? Whats weird is I don't really care or have a want to...

Eh, your 13... I am too by the way. I have a gf now, but really b4 her I wasn't that intrested. she actualy asked me out lol. Maybe you'l get lucky and that will happen to you to:)