I Can't Stand This!

[TrAnSMaN09]

My boyfriends ex-girlfriend is scaring me, She wrote on his wall that she loves him for making her more of a women, I just want her to leave him alone, she shouldn't love him, that's my job,

Am i being to over protective?


I can't stand it when she talks about him like that, She says he's her hero and her protector, But That's wrong, he's MY hero MY prince MY protector, MY BOYFRIEND not hers,

I love him, And want her to understand that she will never have him,


Please help me.... I can't lose my boy....

[anonymous53]

You won't lose him. She's obviously.....crazy. Talk to her about it and see if you can come to an understanding

[Ambrosia]

First, I would talk to HIM about it. He should honestly delete these posts off of his Facebook wall AS SOON as she posts them! You're very right to feel this way, and it's very natural. You feel your position in his heart is threatened by a girl who is still attached, whom you know had connections with him once upon a time.

But here's the thing, you can NOT let this eat you up. Jealousy is a cruel, green eyed monster that is just lurking about waiting for the right time to devour you. If you don't keep reminding yourself that he loves you, and not her, you will become paranoid and scare him out of your own arms! This girl is just a Troll in your lives, and it's not easy to shoot down a Troll!

Talk to him about it. State your fears and insecurities about the whole situation. Communicate with him! He should understand! If this doesn't help, well, go straight to the root of the issue and tell her straight up to find her own man!

Good luck (:

[TrAnSMaN09]

Hey, It's like you KNOW me, That's me right there, I do let jealousy eat me up,And i almost scared him away, And i have talked to him about it,i but i just feel like he doesnt get it, and just thinks im accusing him of cheating on me, which im not

[Ambrosia]

Well then...

Try to talk to him once more, but try and keep calm and composed. Explain you ARE NOT accusing him of cheating. You simply do not trust this girls intentions, and that she makes you uncomfortable because even though you trust him with all your heart, you do not trust her. Ask him to delete and block her off facebook so that all this heartache will go away.

[TrAnSMaN09]

Well then...

Try to talk to him once more, but try and keep calm and composed. Explain you ARE NOT accusing him of cheating. You simply do not trust this girls intentions, and that she makes you uncomfortable because even though you trust him with all your heart, you do not trust her. Ask him to delete and block her off facebook so that all this heartache will go away.



if only it was that easy....

[Ambrosia]

if only it was that easy....

In a way, it is. You just have to try. And as I said, if all else fails, go to the root of the problem.

[Drew7]

the ex is crazy, and as a guy, I can say we don't like crazy stalkers