Tips to ask her out!!!!

[bigfoot]

So there's this girl that I really like.But we're best friends.I don't want to ruin that.Plus I get nervous when I even think about asking her out. Please help.

[Voldemort]

i think its better if u guys stay friends for awhile.....

[bigfoot]

But I think I'm in love with her and I can't get her out of my mind.:confused:

[Jennifer's Ashes]

First of all, I am not pleased that I am no longer the only user on VT located "behind you".

Just try and get closer and closer to her. More affectionate. Hug her more. Play with her hair. And most of all be really, really, really nice. Make sure you let her know that you're great.

Good luck!

[bigfoot]

Thank you and sorry about the location thing I just saw it somewhere:wub:

[Sage]

The only genuinely useful advice you'll ever get in regards to asking a girl out is just do it. If you get bent out of shape trying to be subtle and give hints you'll just feel more anxious when the time does come to ask her out because you're more emotionally invested in it. Fuck "just try getting closer to her and being more affectionate." That lands you straight in the friend zone and then you have no chance. You don't even need to call it a 'date' or 'going out', just ask her some time.

[LuckyLuke]

Sage is 100% right here... you either do it or you don't. You need to go straight to the point and ask her out.

If you dance around the subject than it'll either move you deeper into "friend territory" or you'll have waited too long and she'll become taken.

Bite the bullet and do it. The first word is always the hardest, but after that, it comes naturally.

Besides, the worst she can say is no.

[Dack]

Yeah bro, talking from experience here: don't make hints about it. If you love her, don't invest in it quite a lot of time because you'll only get hurt. Trust me.

[bigfoot]

I'm already way too good of friends with her.If she does say no it will be all awkward and I may lose a good friend.

[Dack]

You never know how she feels unless you ask her

[bigfoot]

Man I wish you weren't right

[Sage]

I'm already way too good of friends with her.If she does say no it will be all awkward and I may lose a good friend.

You're probably friend-zoned already then.

[Unsolvedmind]

You just need to be a MAN and just do it and get it over with! :D that's how I got my beautitful lovely girlfriend <3

[jobrien510]

do not ask her out... if you're not in college yet. do not bother with a girlfriend. just try to hook up with as many girls possible cause in college you want to be very social and find the right girl by the end of that experience

[madjoker525]

You're probably friend-zoned already then.

ya, if that's the case, there is less than a 1% chance there will be something between you two, sorry

[joshuarose_69]

frrl i used to have the same problem. but i figured if i just went for it than the worst she can do is say no. after i got into tht mindset....well.... ive had 14 gf's this year

[joshuarose_69]

i got a question. how do u post something?

[Solo Rider]

i think its better if u guys stay friends for awhile.....

I agree... Beside he compares "things" to bricks so ya hes cool...

[Solo Rider]

i got a question. how do u post something?

Congrats on finding out lol

[tajn23]

The friendzone is just an excuse really for you to have a reason to not ask her out. What I would do is go out on group dates with a bunch of your and her friends and tell your friends that you are interested in your friend. Its like a date with an escape plan. Make hints at that you like her and her friends will notice even if she doesn't. Then if you feel as if you want to date her and she has an idea of you two being in a relationship, the when you do ask her out it won't be such a surprise. And remember confidence is flattering on everyone :love: