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NormanViking
July 12th, 2011, 03:01 AM
Hello, I am a lad of 15 and I am a late bloomer.

Over the past 8 weeks I have had conflicting thoughts over where my loyalties lie, am I gay/striaght/bi.

I have ALWAYS liked girls and still find them attractive and even had a girlfriend. But these thoughts are making me feel like I don't anymore, I do not want to be gay or even bi (sorry) it just doesn't appeal to me.

I used to watch gay porn but I don't anymore because afterwards I would feel ashamed, I know only watch lesbian porn (weird or not?)

The thoughts of me being gay/bi are making me feel depressed as I really don't want to be and it's eating my mind, it is the only thing on it, it's a constant worry in my head. Hormones or not?

Please help!

Solvez18
July 12th, 2011, 03:08 AM
same thing with me (but i dont watch porn or have/had a gf) im sure its hormones

NormanViking
July 12th, 2011, 03:20 AM
I hope so

NormanViking
July 12th, 2011, 08:37 AM
Can anyone help please?

Starlight Blaze
July 12th, 2011, 04:08 PM
well you said you're a late bloomer, so it's probably just hormones
just give yourself a couple of years to let your body work itself out :)

Mynameisconner
July 12th, 2011, 04:28 PM
Don't let it get to you. You are in control of your body, and this is probably just a side effect of your hormones. Just remain comfortable in what you're doing and as you get older they will either subside or remain, but considering your sexuality choice they will likely subside and you'll think you were silly for even worrying :)

NormanViking
July 12th, 2011, 04:37 PM
Thanks a lot you two I hope so:)

RoseyCadaver
July 12th, 2011, 06:26 PM
You shouldn't worry about what sexuality you are,you like what you like,you can not change that.

I also think you shouldn't limit yourself to sexuality.I used to think I was bi,but then everything started going here and there.A long story short,I wouldn't really be restricted and say I AM THIS I HAVE TO FOLLOW IT.Just do what makes you comfortable and like what you like.No need to lie to yourself or deny yourself.

But if you are worried about it,then don't.You sound heterosexual(like the opposite sex) :D.

NormanViking
July 13th, 2011, 01:40 AM
Two.years?:O and I dont want to be bi never mind gay:/ sorry.i just dont, and lately ive been questioning whether I still have an emotional attraction to girls and I am sure I do these worries are so confusing. And thanks I hope I am hetero