hormones or not?

[Callum.95]

Hello everyone I am Callum and I am 15 for the past ooh 7 weeks I have had weird thoughts over my sexuality, I have always liked girls and even had a girlfriend but for some reason these thoughts are making me feel weird and depressed, and I just wondered if this is normal for a teen or not? Help please:)

[Lights]

That's the job of teenage hormones: to make you temperamental and horny :P
Could you give a little more detail as to how you feel about boys? There's good odds that these really are just your hormones messing around with your feelings because most teenagers at least go through a 'phase' of being curious over their own gender.

If you give a few more details, I'll be happy to come back and comment a little further. :)

[Callum.95]

Erm, I don't think I feel anything really:/ I used to masturbate to a guy I knew only to stop because afterwards I'd feel really guilty. I have also thought and had fantasies about men but this stopped a while ago because I felt ashamed after.
I don't think I could see myself in a relationship with a guy tbh

Thankyou:)

[Mynameisconner]

It's most likely your hormones contributing to your curiosity. It's not likely that your sexuality has swayed in any way; Experimentation or more time will allow easier clarification though. It hasn't been to long since this has started so the result will be a little while. I hope it all turns out good!

[Callum.95]

ok I don't want to experiment with a guy, I'd find it weird:)
and oh god, how longer will it be?:( its awful;:)

[Mynameisconner]

That's up to your body~ There's no specific time, or anyway for us to know. I hope it gets alleviated as soon as possible though for your sake :)

[Callum.95]

so you two would say its hormones/curiosity? I hate worrying and it's only thing on my mind at the moment

[Mynameisconner]

Awh, don't worry. That's definately the justification for it. If it worries you it's all the more reason to not think about it and to just let things settle out themselves.

[Callum.95]

ok thankyou, its hard not to worry:/ I don't want to be gay or bisexual:( sorry to all those who are just doesn't appeal to me:)

[Mynameisconner]

It's understandable; I know the difficulties with not worrying, but if you don't think about it it will become easier.

[Callum.95]

thankyou:) means a lot, put my mind at eease a little bit

[Callum.95]

Also mynameisconner (sorry for double posting) is it weird that I always try and get erections over girls so I can't be gay and 99% it works and sometimes puts my mind at ease. It's really awful

[Mynameisconner]

I would just say that you are "avoiding" it per say, but I think you have so much anxiety towards the thought of being gay or bi. That seems perfectly normal to me.
Keep your mind at ease :) Getting a little to anxious ;P

P.S.-
It doesn't make you gay just for getting erections towards guys.

[Callum.95]

haha I know I do!:L because I don't want to be haha:)

It's very hard not to worry sorry:(

[Mynameisconner]

Apologies are totally not required! If you need to vent ever about any of this stuff add me. You can message me anytime, and hopefully I can help you ease your mind a little bit. Worrying then can dilapidate. :)

[Callum.95]

ok thankyou, btw do you mind if I ask you something?

Are you straight or bi or gay?:D sorry

[Mynameisconner]

I'm kind of undecided :). Don't apologize! I'm kind of waiting to figure everything out. Why'd you ask?

[Callum.95]

Because I don't want to be gay or bi haha

[Mynameisconner]

And whatever I am influences that lol?

[Callum.95]

I.hate these thoughts:@

[Mynameisconner]

Cheer up cheerio :) just ignore them. You can do it; I have faith in you :)

[Callum.95]

have faith in me doing what?:D

[Mynameisconner]

Being whatever you want to be :)

[WackyZacky95]

same

[Callum.95]

i want to be straight hehe (no offence anyone)

[Lights]

Having read your comments on this thread, I'd like to reiterate what I first said:

There's good odds that these really are just your hormones messing around with your feelings because most teenagers at least go through a 'phase' of being curious over their own gender.

I'm not quite sure why you're so opposed to being Bisexual or Gay (maybe you could explain?), but I'm of the opinion you're just curious; despite the fact you said how you try to get erections over girls.

One thing I will say to you is: You might not want to be Bisexual or Gay, but that doesn't mean you can't or won't be now or in the future when you could discover yourself a little more.

[Callum.95]

I try and get erections to make sure Im still attracted haha and I dont want to.bi/gay idk I just dont