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ImCoolBeans
July 11th, 2011, 02:41 AM
ok so i've been having a pretty wild summer so far... and i was at a party on saturday night and everyone was getting with everyone. i kissed a few girls but i made out with one of my best friends. shes a girl so im not weirded out about that or anything. its just the fact that i hooked up with one of my best friends casually, we've laughed about it a little since and hungout since so its not awkward or anything. but i feel really weird about it, any input?
Ambrosia
July 11th, 2011, 02:48 AM
Well, how do you feel about her? Do you like her, or is it all the same?

The fact is, things like this happen. She probably feels funny about it to, so you aren't alone there! Perhaps you can discuss it with her, discuss why and how it happened, and level out that it was all just a fluke. Two good friends were bored, and wanted to experiment!

People do this rather often, and you two are no exception! Life goes on and you just have another kiss under your belt. Be glad it didn't go further!

But yeah, figure out why you feel weird. As in, what do you mean by weird.
ImCoolBeans
July 12th, 2011, 09:23 PM
i've never thought about her in that kind of way, shes one of the guys almost.. and now idk i feel different, i'm second guessing it. i almost want it to happen again now...
prob1996
July 12th, 2011, 09:55 PM
Even though it was casual, you've added a new layer to the friendship. It is only normal to want to explore that further. Talk to her about it and see if she wants to do it again too. The dynamics have changed in a way you didn't think it ever would, of course it's going to feel weird until you figure out exactly where you want to take it.
ImCoolBeans
July 12th, 2011, 10:23 PM
i just NEVER saw this happening, i don't even know how to bring it up to her like that
prob1996
July 13th, 2011, 05:53 AM
Being one of your best friends, I'm sure you guys joke around about anything and everything. I would make some joking comments about it and see her reaction. Or if you're talking about people who you like, find a subtle way to segway the conversation toward that incident and again she how she reacts.