ex-boyfriend that doesnt get the idea

[katie_kat]

Okay so I have been single for at least 4 months now and the last relationship i was in was great at first but then he was turned out to be a big fat jerk so i decided to leave him....but after about a few weeks he started txting me non stop he kept asking me if i wanted to go to the movies with him i told him no and sometimes completely ignored him and occasionally lied to him that i had a family thing going on that night but it just got to the point where he was stalking me at school and whenever i am talking to someone he goes behind my back and asks them what i was talking about..well i just need some tips on how i can get this guy to leave me alone and stop asking my friends about me..

Any ideas??

[Ambrosia]

Straight up telling him would be a good start. Approach him in private and get stern, teach him at a young age that a womans wrath is something to be feared! Explain in a few words that you do NOT like him, you do NOT want to be with him, and that you do NOT appreciate him being sneaky and talking to your friends. And, perhaps go find yourself another male to threaten on him. "IF YOU DON'T STOP ---- WILL MAKE YOU STOP!". Of course, I don't condone violence, but heey.

If it doesn't work, go to your school principal or tell your mother/father.

[Hope4u]

agreed....tell him to his face.."Hey..it's over between us..move on and leave me the heck alone"..if that doesn't work..let all your friends and his friends know that you want nothing to do with him and that he's bothering you.