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BadWolf
July 10th, 2011, 03:21 AM
So I'm crazy for this guy, and everyone is always saying "Are you 2 dating? You should date! Ya'll are cute! He totally likes you, he talks to you all the time! You 2 flirt WAY too much, stop it. Go out already!" etc etc. Well I have inside info that he doesn't want to make it awkward between us if we date and it doesn't go well. Everytime someone brings me up to him he (so I've heard) gets blushy. Oh and he doesn't really want a girlfriend now. GRR. so I had just texted him the other day, thats usually how our convos start: *I* text *him*. Which isn't done, I know. And he's basically the worst texter known to man. It takes him FOREVER to respond and sometimes he spaces out and doesn't respond at all. It makes me mad. Anyway, out of the blue today this happened (facebook) :

Guy: HEYYY
Me: HEYYY(:
Guy: I miss you!! come to (place he lives) now!!
Me: I miss you more! We should play tennis!
Guy: Doubtful. and yess!
Me: I'm gonna try to see your show next weekend(:
Guy: Good! You should come early so we can chill!
Me: Yess. We need to make this happen
Guy: Not optional

UGHH I feel like I should give up on him, but I don't want to! What should I do??
anonymous53
July 10th, 2011, 06:39 AM
Go out on a limb, ask him. If he can't take a hint (Like a million other guys) you've gotta take it into your own hands :)
BOSS
July 10th, 2011, 07:22 AM
Ask him just ask him if he likes you I"m sure you won't regret it. ;)
Ben Michael
July 10th, 2011, 01:12 PM
Ask him just ask him if he likes you I"m sure you won't regret it. ;)

I completly agree 
kyle95
July 10th, 2011, 02:20 PM
I'm not sure about this. He seems to be on both ends of the spectrum - no interest and intense interest. That could a red flag for a controlling or out of control person. Let him know a happy median is where there's always a meeting of minds. Beginning a game from deep in your end zone is never a good position, you'll lose - start at centre field.
BadWolf
July 10th, 2011, 02:43 PM
I'm not sure about this. He seems to be on both ends of the spectrum - no interest and intense interest. That could a red flag for a controlling or out of control person. Let him know a happy median is where there's always a meeting of minds. Beginning a game from deep in your end zone is never a good position, you'll lose - start at centre field.


This is exactly what he seems. This is really great^ thankyou(: (even if the football metaphor confused me lol) Thanks everyone for replying! I just don't think I'm sure enough to ask him that. Also we're friends. We've known eachother for only about a year and a half, but we do community theatre together. Something happens during a show where complete strangers get really close. I understand what he means when he told my inside sourse that he doesn't want to make things awkward. But I really like him, and I've never liked someone like this before.