Friendship PROBLEM >:|

[Hank Hill]

Alright guys, didn't know who to talk to about this, so VT just came naturally. :D So I have this friend, and we're not great friends, we're just friends. Anyway, I was parking cars today at the local rodeo, and she pulled in and I parked her. :cool: She got out and ran up to me and hugged me and said the usual summer greetings (usual in my opinion) "Oh hey, how's your summer been? I haven't seen you in forever!" Kind of thing. Then after talking for maybe a minute she went to the fair and I kept parking. What's bugging me is that every time I text her, or talk to her on Facebook, or anything like that, she always ignores me. Whether it's asking her in text "Hey are you going to the rodeo tomorrow?" kind of thing or sending her a message like "Hey, you have a nice car." It's never returned. It's been bugging me for a while, because it's not like I text her or call, or send a message every 5 minutes. Maybe once every 3 or 4 weeks I'll text her, and it's always either a easy question (like, are you going to the rodeo,) or something nice to say. I've never once said anything mean to her, and don't plan on it. She just never responds to me, and it kind of hurts my feelings, you know? I also know I have the right number, because I texted her when she was coming back to her car today, and she picked up her phone, looked at it, and put it away. (she didn't know I was there lol) I'm not the kind of person who expresses his feelings with big sob stories to friends, I'm always happy and outgoing, but this is just killing me inside...I've had a crush on this girl for a few years, but don't have the guts (I ADMIT IT! RAWR :D ) to tell her. Does she just not like me or what? Just wondering what you guys thought.

Thanks,

That One Kid Tyler

(BTW, sorry about the length of this whole thing, but I'm grievin here. ;) )

[TheMatrix]

i'm sorry if this offends you, but you need to find a new girl. it'll be hard, i know, but you'll have to do it.
good girls always respond as quickly as possible to their bf's(and vics versa for boys as well)

[Shenron]

i'm sorry if this offends you, but you need to find a new girl. it'll be hard, i know, but you'll have to do it.
good girls always respond as quickly as possible to their bf's(and vics versa for boys as well)

Not to argue or anything, but the OP said nothing about them currently being in a relationship. He did however say that he had feelings for her, and that she ignores him.

So, my two cents: next time you see her in person just flat out ask her, "are you ignoring me". You could kinda laugh it off afterward (not recommended) or (if you can handle rejection) tell her that you just want to know the truth and again ask her, "are you ignoring me". I mean, she could be looking at it and then intending to respond later but just forgetting. She could also like you and just not know how to respond to you. My other piece of advice: don't get your hopes up, a lot of girls just don't see what is right in front if them. I mean, you can talk to her but like I said, don't set your heart on something unless you are prepared for disappointment.