Should I do it?

[miguelt]

So i met this guy online and we've been talking for the last few days on Skype. He lives in my area and we've been talking about meeting up for some fun. He wants to just hang out and maybe fool around if it goes that way. He said he would want to bottom for me, but idk. If anything I would just want to give/receive BJs. I dont want to lose my legit virginity to a guy i just met like that. Should i meet up with him? Hes 18 and im 16--my parents are going out of town later this month and we could meet up. im afraid to let him over to my house but i think it would be really fun to fool around with him--what should i do? help

[Jon Doe 401]

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[tyler17OKC]

Be careful with it, Let someone know where you are going to be, Meet somewhere NOT at you house!!!! That way if he is a freak he will not know where you live. If you are still ok after the first meet, go out TWO TIMES before you bring him to your house. Have a phone with you at all times that is fully charged! I would say, trust you gut. But be careful. Good Luck! ;)

[prob1996]

Be careful with it, Let someone know where you are going to be, Meet somewhere NOT at you house!!!! That way if he is a freak he will not know where you live. If you are still ok after the first meet, go out TWO TIMES before you bring him to your house. Have a phone with you at all times that is fully charged! I would say, trust you gut. But be careful. Good Luck! ;)

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Just be really careful, aware of your surroundings and keep it public, alot of freaking crazy people out there. gd luck!

[Anthony115]

just be careful. is all i can say

[Emiil]

yeah, be careful hehhhh

[iamniokekun]

I'd advise against it. First off, you don't even know him. Second, even if you did know him, you don't know what kind of STDs he has and such. It doesn't seem like he just wants to innocently fool around like you want to, so if anything take some more time to get to know him. Or better yet, why not just ask someone you know?

[jake8188]

if anythings.... take someone with you... for safety

[Stronger]

You, just met him, I wouldnt, it would be more understandable if you maybe talked in school face to face and wanted to better know him outside but for a complete stranger, I wouldn't do it. Depending on where you live what if a neighboor sees you doing this and tells your parents, pretty risky. If your going to do it since its your choice atleast meet up at a place thts not urs just to be sure

[RadioPlayer]

DONT! You dont know what kind of guy he really is. Things could go very, very bad. My advice would be, if you want to exchange BJs, find someone that you know personally, instead of met online. Plus... You have no idea how many other guys he does this with. He could be loaded with STDs, and you wouldnt want to risk that.

[Natedoggsr71]

I would say no...Its to risky for a guy you met online

[Donkey]

Does not sound safe at all to me.

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[niceguy90]

Dont do it! Not safe. you need to get to know him first.

[katie_kat]

i would say not safe but if u still wanna go at least go with a group of friends