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rissa-_-
July 8th, 2011, 06:54 PM
ok this happened on fourth of july so yeah i know i'm late but oh well. anywho, so to celebrate july fourth i went to visit my dad's side of the family for dinner. only like three people said hi to me. there was at least fourteen people. that's when i felt like i wasn't important. for about an hour nobody spoke to me. they only wanted to speak to my sister about her sewing items. the whole time i was crying but i didn't want to show it so i kept looking up at the sky pretending i was admiring the night sky.
another time i felt ignored was july sixth. i was going to the fair in my town with a friend and my sister. my friend left me when she saw our friends, and i had to stay with my sister. but that night my friend wanted to go on a hayride with me and others to take photos. before the hayride started we took the photos, but when it started i was in the corner just sitting there trying not to cry because of the ignorance of my friends. that night my friend stayed over. all we talked about was her, she didn't even had the idea about asking if i was okay that night. and that's why i really don't talk about my feelings because nobody cares for what i have to say. . .

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July 8th, 2011, 07:09 PM
Het, Rissa, I am sorry you have been having a hard time. Maybe you could try approaching your family than waiting for them to speak to you. Sometimes seeing family you don't see often it can be awkward for everyone. Maybe you should try and tell them that you want to become intimately involved into the conversation and I think that they would gladly welcome you in.

And if you ever want to talk to me about your feelings I'm always open to try and give my best input.

XxMurderedKissesxX
July 12th, 2011, 10:11 AM
I know how you feel,anytime I have family outings,they pretend like im not even there. You could try talking to your friends,or family about feeling ignored. Sometimes people dont know what to say,or how to approach someone when they think somethings wrong. If its difficult to talk to them about,you could always email em,or write them a letter. As for no one talking to you,if thats the case,you could try entering a conversation,or maybe attempt to spike one up?