I need advice

[Gremlin]

Right so i need advice on something (there is a lot to read but please read it)

So just over a week ago i was talking to my ex girlfriend on msn (she is a really sweet girl) and she asked me if i liked anyone and after dogging her questions i said i liked her (i really do) she said if we were to start up again we would have to date first. She came to my house a couple of days later (monday) and we really got along and we kissed hugged and talked a lot well i asked her if she wanted to be my girlfriend again on thursday night and she said yes so we went to the cinema on wednesday and she seemed different we didn't kiss at all that day and that night after she went home she was on msn and told me she wants to break up so she can fix her head out and to find her feet again (she was just out of a 3 year relationship and she hates his guts) and that night i couldn't stop crying and yesterday (thursday) she texed me after i asked her how long until she would be okay and make her mind up about if we where going to continue our relationship she said TWO MONTHS now i understand her and respect her for this as she is obviously being sensible but i am worried she will ditch me. I also want help on coping without her for these next months i just feel in utter despair. Thanks -C-

[Sogeking]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Giles]

Punctuation. Christ almighty.

It sounds like she's pretty messed up because of her recent relationship and that's completely understandable. In fact I would imagine that she wanted to be with you more as a comfort than anything else and she may not have realised it herself until the day after your first meet. I don't see how she could say two months until she's 'ready' so I'd take that lightly and to be honest it seems like she doesn't know what she wants.

If I was in our position then I'd just hang about for a while, give her a chance to sort herself out; not two months, maybe a few weeks, and talk to her then and see how she's feeling about a relationship. If she's still saying that she's not ready then, she probably does't want anything to do with you.

Oh btw, you don't need help to cope without her. You'll manage just fine.