hello everybodyy:) problem!

[WackyZacky95]

Erm..hi, I decided to have a look at teen websites about how people can help with me my problem. Here goes...

For the past two months I have been incredibly confused over my sexuality! Before these 2 months, I had always liked girls and even had a couple of girlfriends. I don;t know why these thoughts have passed over me, they are making me feel really guilty and the thought of being gay does not appeal to me, I have always classed myself as straight.

I am extremely worried because these thoughts of whether I'm straight or not are just constantly in my mind, and I hate it, it makes me feel so angry and really worried! It's not like I'm homophobic, I just do not want to be gay, or even bisexual:/

Can anyone help me with this problem please?
Thanks

[Tristin.]

all teens go through this, every person has these thoughts, its curiostiy.. unless you can see your self in a physical and emotional relationship with a guy, you dont need to worrry. you will grow out of it eventualy

[WackyZacky95]

No I don't think I can:/ but these thoughts are awful, I hate it when people tell you not to worry-no offence because it is extremely hard not to

[Tristin.]

you will grow out of it then. worse case scenario for you then you might be bi, but that doesnt mean you HAVE to date boys does it?

[WackyZacky95]

No:) thankyou:) I can still picture girls when masturbating but I used to masturbate to a guy I knew as well, but I stopped like 6 months ago, after I'd done it I felt ashamed

[Koffing]

You are just curious I think ;)
relax about it and it will be over eventualy ;)

[WackyZacky95]

wish people wouldnt say that;) but thanks ill try

[Mynameisconner]

If you don't like that advice: I would recommend avoiding the thought of anything that begins to make you feel uncomfortable. If people ask, say what you're comfortable saying. No one else really even has to know. In time you will begin to know yourself, and then there most likely wont even be a problem to deal with.

[WackyZacky95]

hopefully...thanks a lot

Tristin, mind if I ask you a question?
If I was attracted physically and emotionally what would it mean?:)

[TtotheC]

i think that both the emotional and physical attraction defines wether you are gay or not. I guess that means if you can see yourself in a long-term relationship with a dude and being happy with it :)

but just sexual attraction, nah, i mean you could get aroused over a freaking duck for gods sake. Try to define if you feel in looove with someone, not wether u just wanna fuck em or not, that's not gonna make you happy in the long run anyways.:)

[The Dill]

Ummm I'm sorry that you're having these feelings you don't like :(. I'm pretty sure all teens have thoughts about experimenting so these thoughts don't make you gay or bisexual. If you feel a sexual attraction to another guy, you could just be curious. If its an emotional connection, I'm not sure....but don't worry! Your thoughts don't have to mean anything. I hope you figure yourself out :) and I hope I helped a little.

[WackyZacky95]

ok I don't think I can tbh, the thought of not being able to get married and produce kids scares me:L

[mrbob360]

ok I don't think I can tbh, the thought of not being able to get married and produce kids scares me:L

you can still be gay or bi and produce kids and get married no offence but ur just curious and u know nothing about being gay or bi i wouldnt worry about it your curious its hormone nothing you can do unless u want less testorone then ull act really femnanine

[The Dill]

I had the same worries! If I end up with a guy I won't have kids....unless I get one of those women who you pay to take your sperm and give you a baby (I can't remember what they are called)

[WackyZacky95]

surrogates;) I hope it's just hormones, no offence

[The Dill]

Oh yeah surrogates XD I feel a bit dumb right now.....oh well X)

[WackyZacky95]

haha no worries,

[LoginLeo]

Puberty man, it's puberty...
Everyone goes through it, so did i...
Before i found the girl of my life, i also thought that way... i even had some gay experiences...
Just.. Live with it, and try to find your true love, then those thoughts will just go away... :)

[WackyZacky95]

thankyou loginleo:)

[WackyZacky95]

Has this true love thing worked for other people as well? Just wondering, also when will these thoughts go away?:/