Question

[JimmyD]

If anyone else is sexually active is it bad if you girl wanted to have sex but i didn't get an erection?:whoops:

[slappy]

It could just mean ur not Horney.

[JimmyD]

She looked pissed..... and I don't know what I can do.

[death_to_my_heart]

well dont sweat it ur not gay or bi and its probably bc ur were nto horny

[JimmyD]

Still like it wasn't the first time we where going to have sex and usually I would get a hard on pretty quick. And I wanted to and everything and all but..... Idk

[mrbob360]

can i ask ur only 13 no offence but you shouldn't be worrying about having sex yet?

[JimmyD]

To late..... And who cares about how old or young you are.

[mrbob360]

To late..... And who cares about how old or young you are.

well im sorry but 13 is too young what happens if you ge her pregnant and she wants to keep how r u going to afford a baby

[JimmyD]

Condom, or just pull out.

[DayandNight]

Anyway, aside from whether or not how old or young you are, the fact is you are sexually active. I lost my virginity when I was 14, so its more personal choice. You know the risks you take when you have sex with a girl. Anyway, it could be probably that you were just not horny at that moment in time, that's why you didn't get a boner. Also, if you jacked off before you had sex with your girl that could have affected your performance too. It also can affect how quick you cum too. Anyway, I wouldn't sweat it bro, just because you didn't get a boner with your girl, doesn't mean you are gay. Like I said you probably just weren't horny or you jacked off too soon before sex with your girl.

[JimmyD]

I know I'm not gay just blahhhh nvm hahahhahah thx!

[mrbob360]

Condom, or just pull out.

pulling out doesnt work mate it take 1 littlle sperm to make a baby do u know anything about sex?

[Luka]

Clearly not. what a fool.

[LuckyLuke]

Condom, or just pull out.

The pull out method is only 82% effective... that's about a 2 in 10 chance of pregnancy. My entire life down the shitter w/ a baby or do things a 13 year old should be doing? And precum can cause pregnancy as well.

As for condoms.. effective, yes, but realistically, where are you getting condoms/money for condoms?

[CryWolf]

Well despite all the other random observations here, the question you asked was, "is it bad" that you didn't get an erection. The answer is no. I mean that kind of thing can happen sometimes. Just talk about it with her and explain that you don't know what happened. I'm sure there have been times when she wasn't horny. Main thing is just talk about it and be careful.

[ItStOuGhEnOuGh4Us]

Well despite all the other random observations here, the question you asked was, "is it bad" that you didn't get an erection. The answer is no. I mean that kind of thing can happen sometimes. Just talk about it with her and explain that you don't know what happened. I'm sure there have been times when she wasn't horny. Main thing is just talk about it and be careful.
This post says it all.
And to you rude ass posters, if the only thing that can come out of your mouth is an insult or just pure stupidity, keep it to yourself.

[Giles]

can i ask ur only 13 no offence but you shouldn't be worrying about having sex yet?

That's not what he asked about, don't lecture him...

It's certainly going to be embarrassing that you didn't get an erection but it's not 'bad'. As long as you can get an erection in general then everything down there should be fine, it was probably just nerves.

[niceguy90]

no. u might be nervous. if she cared enough she would understand.

[Ben Michael]

Yeah....wait a lil bro think it through first before you have sex.

[niceguy90]

still way to young.

[JayJ]

It doesn't necessarily mean that you're not interested in that sexual partner, some people get performance anxiety the first they perform with a new sexual partner, it's completely normal. You'll get over it once you've had more sexual experience.

[TheBigUnit]

If anyone else is sexually active is it bad if you girl wanted to have sex but i didn't get an erection?:whoops:

Well r u horny? Lol

[Kujiro]

I think basically you are just not in the mood for it,
It could be place, or surroundings which may have affected you and thus not turning on.

Its not really a bad thing.
Dont worry about it.

Cheers

[Boxerbriefs96]

Condom, or just pull out.

You really dont know a thing about sex do you? Even before you "just pull out" the damage could already be done. Pre-cum can get the job done...it is possible.