Fuked up

[69_eyes]

Hey guys need abit of help here, kinda mostly about 2 of my friends and it gets complicated. Ok well ive got a friend shes really slutty and shes only 15. We (as in our friend group thingo) are trying to tell her that its really not cool to sleep around so much. Me and few other friends sat her down last yr when we saw it was gonna get worse and ask her why she sleeps around so much, she told us cuse she wants to be accepted by guys cuse we wont like her unless she was like that but we tried to explain to her that she was really cool, nice and great personality but didnt help shes gotten really worse this yr. And when she goes out with some1 we know that it aint gonna last more then a week (bout how long it takes her to get in their pants)

Now 2 problems have colided... ive got this other friend he got really depressed last yr and tried to commit sucide and they started to go out.

Ok so it lasted bout a week but i dotn think anythign happened, she jsut went into this total meltdown taking my other friend with her. So i gotta look out for her and him cuse she looks like she might just break soon. And iam like the middle man talking to both, getting all this worry and shit and dont know wat to do.

Ok so shes starting to say she h8s life and wishes it will go away and shit. I need help, how can i get her to stop sleeping around and to break out of this fuked up state of mind. Iam less worried bout the guy cuse i rkn hes too strong now to go all depressed again.

sorry if its all confusing and sry bout the spelling(last thing on my mind atm)

Thanks
I_F

[Hyper]

Heh? Wait I cant realy understand what the hell are you saying


Slowly think now, and answer me this

Why does she hate life?

[69_eyes]

ok, slutty friend thinks she needs to sleep with people for them to like her is having a beakdown. My friends and i have noticed her acting strangly. Shes starting to say life isnt worth it etc. why? dont know that will be my next question 2 her

[Hyper]

If you cant explain it to her, get her to seek some right help

[69_eyes]

But the thing is shes too headstrong to go anywhere, we offer to go with her but she just wont go

[Hyper]

Explain to her the damn reality of being a slut and wtf it means

And explain to her that life is hard but giving up is just stupid

[Sapphire]

Try to show her that she can have a good time with her friends. This can help a bit with the hating life aspect. Reassuring her that you are there for her is also an important one.
The truth of the matter is that she's probably feeling worthless from sleeping around. The sleeping around most probably stems from a feeling of worthlessness too.
Warn her of the health risks involved. Sit her infront of a computer and show her all the nasty STDs that are about. Complete with photos. This may be enough to shock her into reducing the sleeping around or at least into making sure she is protected.
As far as the male friend is concerned, let him know that you are there if he needs you. To say that he is too strong to get depressed is not necessarily correct. Depression can return.

[chelsea714]

um, i think that getting a girl to sit in front of a computer and showing her pictures of STD's is easier said than done.

[Sapphire]

Yes, I know that. But, its worth a shot. Nothing in life is easy.