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Starlight Blaze
July 7th, 2011, 12:20 AM
So I'm working on getting a boyfriend.
This guy, he's amazing. He's so sweet, and funny, and kind, and amazing, though he is very shy. :rolleyes:
And I'm having my friend sorta help me through it.

But the problem is I'm just so nervous! About everything! Not just asking him, just everything about the situation.

I know he's at least questioning his sexuality, and I (subconsiously) flirted with him, and he sort of did back, so I think he might like me.

But like I said I'm nervous and scared. I don't wanna get rejected again. I want to be with him...it's just so hard...

sorry this is sort of a rant, but I'm just really nervous about the whole situation. You guys have any advice on how to relax?

death_to_my_heart
July 7th, 2011, 12:27 AM
i would just say to tell him how u fell and if u really like him dont be scared and if he rejects you dont make it weird and never talk to him again just be his friend and just be calm i know it will work out fine

Mynameisconner
July 9th, 2011, 11:55 PM
Honestly, I don't think opening up and telling him your feelings cold turkey would be very beneficial to either of you. The thing that seems to be lacking from the both of you is comfortability. The easiest way to obtain that is to get to know each other beter. Your anticipation could be rewarded keep in mind :). You will start to not feel as nervous, and he might become more aware or apparent in his sexuality. Win-win situation. Make sure to go for it though. :)