LDK Ven
July 6th, 2011, 10:07 PM
okay i know this may seem like a "let me tell you the whole[boring for you] story" but i wont lie: this is the case...for anyone willing to read this...many thanks in advance
so,i'm a 17 guy and at the last school year there was a guy in my class, that i REALLY REALLY liked. i mean i was like W.O.W.! from the first day and i kept staring at him. thing is he did the same although he was more "held back" than i was.okay it's impossible to narrate everything that happened within a whole year but anyways i really liked him and he showed an interest too.
things kept going like that,with innuendos(if that's the right word....:/) , starings etc.anyway he kept giving me the impression he was interested but i dont think he wanted to show that- if it really was true.i mean he was nervous the first times we talked, when i used the bus he did too, when i was on foot he came along and things like that. after a while i saw on fb he was in a relationship-with a girl of course - and tried to play cool although i was anything but cool! he did continue to send "subtle messages" though . after a while i was pissed of and he saw it, and next day he broke up with her,with no reason,at least apparent. he did, she was dedicating songs every day even after they broke up. after that i stopped being angry and thing kept on going the same way.
in the meantime since we were talking again, i happened to accidentally see some of his messages while he was reading them , that were from his best friend. the thing is that the messages were not really that friendly.and it came to me that this friend of his was actually really close. could say too close.anyway the guy keeps sending me those "messages" and i'm about to explode.he was even sending "kisses through the air.."if you know what i mean. one day were were texting on cellphones and i told him i'm not gonna say anything because i know how he would respond. i told him that anything i had to say i had already shown it. his answer(and final message) was "well have you ever said anything? since you have never said anything [and see my reaction]you have to right to talk"
next day thing were the same so i had the brilliant idea to try to kiss him.THE.EPIC.FAIL.. he drew back. i got mad and entered the classroom and he came behind.he came and sat next to me but he was embarrased,well ok not more than me. he gave me an impression of "i dont know how to act now, and i dont wanna show anything, but i was i actually surprised". Though i dont know if that's what i want to thing about or if he that's really the truth.He wanted to leave together at the end of the class, so we did but i was more like "save the pity!". the next two days i didnt go to school . meanwhile he kept asking the girl i'm sitting with (who's a close friend of me but then didnt know anything) "where is he?" and "why didnt he come?" and such stuff.
the 3rd after the failure i had the even more brilliant idea to talk to him clearly. the thing is i did it through sms messages. i told him that i like him and stuff like that but his answers were neither negative nor positive. he kept answering playing the stupid , and answered like he didnt anderstand what i was talking about. when i finally told it clearly he answered "haha okay quit joking now and tell me what is wrong". i got really mad and told him to leave me alone...twice. next day he made up with the girl he had had a relationship with. after that we had 2 weeks vacation. in that time he got and found the girl im sitting with and told her everything,together with the guy he is sitting with. the 3 of them discussed some things and judging by his words the girl told me she understood the he wasnt sure if my messages were serious or if i was indeed joking. after we returned from vacation i talked with the girl too, explaining everything and with him, i acted like he was invisible for about 2 weeks. after that i got to "normal", meaning i talked with him but nothing flirting involved. not at all.
one week after the girl i had talked to went to the beach with him, his "close" friend and the guy who sits next to him. until then the girl wasnt very sure if he was actually gay. anyway after they returned, she called me immediately on her own and her first word was "he is indeed.its so clear" i asked her what changed her mind and she told me because of his behaviour with his close friend. she said that they acted like a couple.too much!.she also said that he accidentally told her that they had kissed before, and had gone to gay partys,and later tried ti fix it up.(btw he broke up with the girl again)
i know its easy to say "hey dude he likes you .Yeah!" but i want 3rd opinion that think objectively. cuz subjectively the guy was crazy about me XD ...just kidding
all this year my intuition was telling me that he was gay and that he liked me, even though i had no real proof. now i am sure that he is gay but i dont know how much he likes me. i mean i know what i saw, and he was definately sending some messages all this time. i just dont know if he was being like that just because i liked him, if he simply likes me but nothing more, or if he feels the same way i do.
again thanks for reading
so,i'm a 17 guy and at the last school year there was a guy in my class, that i REALLY REALLY liked. i mean i was like W.O.W.! from the first day and i kept staring at him. thing is he did the same although he was more "held back" than i was.okay it's impossible to narrate everything that happened within a whole year but anyways i really liked him and he showed an interest too.
things kept going like that,with innuendos(if that's the right word....:/) , starings etc.anyway he kept giving me the impression he was interested but i dont think he wanted to show that- if it really was true.i mean he was nervous the first times we talked, when i used the bus he did too, when i was on foot he came along and things like that. after a while i saw on fb he was in a relationship-with a girl of course - and tried to play cool although i was anything but cool! he did continue to send "subtle messages" though . after a while i was pissed of and he saw it, and next day he broke up with her,with no reason,at least apparent. he did, she was dedicating songs every day even after they broke up. after that i stopped being angry and thing kept on going the same way.
in the meantime since we were talking again, i happened to accidentally see some of his messages while he was reading them , that were from his best friend. the thing is that the messages were not really that friendly.and it came to me that this friend of his was actually really close. could say too close.anyway the guy keeps sending me those "messages" and i'm about to explode.he was even sending "kisses through the air.."if you know what i mean. one day were were texting on cellphones and i told him i'm not gonna say anything because i know how he would respond. i told him that anything i had to say i had already shown it. his answer(and final message) was "well have you ever said anything? since you have never said anything [and see my reaction]you have to right to talk"
next day thing were the same so i had the brilliant idea to try to kiss him.THE.EPIC.FAIL.. he drew back. i got mad and entered the classroom and he came behind.he came and sat next to me but he was embarrased,well ok not more than me. he gave me an impression of "i dont know how to act now, and i dont wanna show anything, but i was i actually surprised". Though i dont know if that's what i want to thing about or if he that's really the truth.He wanted to leave together at the end of the class, so we did but i was more like "save the pity!". the next two days i didnt go to school . meanwhile he kept asking the girl i'm sitting with (who's a close friend of me but then didnt know anything) "where is he?" and "why didnt he come?" and such stuff.
the 3rd after the failure i had the even more brilliant idea to talk to him clearly. the thing is i did it through sms messages. i told him that i like him and stuff like that but his answers were neither negative nor positive. he kept answering playing the stupid , and answered like he didnt anderstand what i was talking about. when i finally told it clearly he answered "haha okay quit joking now and tell me what is wrong". i got really mad and told him to leave me alone...twice. next day he made up with the girl he had had a relationship with. after that we had 2 weeks vacation. in that time he got and found the girl im sitting with and told her everything,together with the guy he is sitting with. the 3 of them discussed some things and judging by his words the girl told me she understood the he wasnt sure if my messages were serious or if i was indeed joking. after we returned from vacation i talked with the girl too, explaining everything and with him, i acted like he was invisible for about 2 weeks. after that i got to "normal", meaning i talked with him but nothing flirting involved. not at all.
one week after the girl i had talked to went to the beach with him, his "close" friend and the guy who sits next to him. until then the girl wasnt very sure if he was actually gay. anyway after they returned, she called me immediately on her own and her first word was "he is indeed.its so clear" i asked her what changed her mind and she told me because of his behaviour with his close friend. she said that they acted like a couple.too much!.she also said that he accidentally told her that they had kissed before, and had gone to gay partys,and later tried ti fix it up.(btw he broke up with the girl again)
i know its easy to say "hey dude he likes you .Yeah!" but i want 3rd opinion that think objectively. cuz subjectively the guy was crazy about me XD ...just kidding
all this year my intuition was telling me that he was gay and that he liked me, even though i had no real proof. now i am sure that he is gay but i dont know how much he likes me. i mean i know what i saw, and he was definately sending some messages all this time. i just dont know if he was being like that just because i liked him, if he simply likes me but nothing more, or if he feels the same way i do.
again thanks for reading