bdon
July 6th, 2011, 09:41 PM
OK, so this is what i need help with,(sorry if it sounds rambley),
About a month ago, one of my female friends texted me and asked if i knew anyone that liked her, and i said "yes" she asked "who?", i said "me" i told her that i really liked her, well her and i hit it off real well, and she has been dealing with her most recent ex, who made up lies about her, i called her one night after seeing a status of hers on facebook, she was crying, and i helped her through that, and she said she really liked me too, and i asked her out, she hasn't given me an answer(i asked her out on July 2nd) but we talk like we are dating, you know "i love you", and stuff like that, well on the 3rd, her most recent ex said that she slept with an earlier boyfriend, now an ex, and called her a player, she was single, at that time, well she called, crying and sniffling, she told me what had happened, i talked to this guy and got it cleared up, well i trust and believe her 100%, but shes been spending allot of time with the one that her most recent ex said she slept with(she is saving herself for marriage), now here's the problem,
i think she is "involved"(not sex, but bj's and stuff) with the the earlier ex boyfriend(the one her most recent ex said she slept with).
Can anyone give me advice on how to confront this girl with out coming across as though i don't trust her, i really love this girl, and she loves me, i don't want to mess up what we have.
Thank you for any advice
About a month ago, one of my female friends texted me and asked if i knew anyone that liked her, and i said "yes" she asked "who?", i said "me" i told her that i really liked her, well her and i hit it off real well, and she has been dealing with her most recent ex, who made up lies about her, i called her one night after seeing a status of hers on facebook, she was crying, and i helped her through that, and she said she really liked me too, and i asked her out, she hasn't given me an answer(i asked her out on July 2nd) but we talk like we are dating, you know "i love you", and stuff like that, well on the 3rd, her most recent ex said that she slept with an earlier boyfriend, now an ex, and called her a player, she was single, at that time, well she called, crying and sniffling, she told me what had happened, i talked to this guy and got it cleared up, well i trust and believe her 100%, but shes been spending allot of time with the one that her most recent ex said she slept with(she is saving herself for marriage), now here's the problem,
i think she is "involved"(not sex, but bj's and stuff) with the the earlier ex boyfriend(the one her most recent ex said she slept with).
Can anyone give me advice on how to confront this girl with out coming across as though i don't trust her, i really love this girl, and she loves me, i don't want to mess up what we have.
Thank you for any advice