Feeling like im losing interest. (doesnt feel the same)

[Necroxfiendx07]

Me and my girlfriend broke up in November, after dating for a year and a half. We went through a bunch of crap, she saw someone else while we were both broken up, yada yada. We got back together on May 3rd of this year. For months and months i pleaded and begged for her to come back. So now shes finally mine again. So far 2 months after getting back together, im starting to feel..odd. Like im losing interest. And it scares me, because her personality fits so well with mine. We have the same interests, values, and morals. And she has everything i look for in a girl, but i just feel different. I dont know why. Is it cause the damage Of her not taking me back for 6 months is finally hittinf me? Is it cause i have trust issues (im afraid she'll leave again). Idk what to do, shes Perfect for me so why do i feel this way? Maybe its just a phase?

[Eagle63]

Try to spice things up with it and think outside the box for your next date with her. If that doesn't work out, you're probably just feeling the aftermath of her leaving you the first time. I hate to break it to you, but you're probably gonna have to find someone else unless you want to have lost interest forever.

[Ambrosia]

It is because of the damage. I know this from personal experience, and it's horrible. The trust issues, the heart broken feeling she left you with, it all ends up weighing on your subconscious. It IS reversible, if you truly want it to be, thankfully.

Try talking it over with her. I don't mean telling her that you're losing interest, but do tell her that you are having trouble getting over the pain that she left you with in the beginning. If you two are meant to be together then a small conversation over it will do you more harm than good. Communication is KEY!

Try and spice up the relationship, or try to start over from the beginning. Don't keep trying to pick up where you left off. Make it start like it's a whole new relationship.

[Necroxfiendx07]

Thats good advice. I literally cannot understand why this is happening now. For 2 years, whether we were together or not, i was head over heals for this girl. And like a switch, it all just felt different. It was very drastic and sudden. I hope its just a phase, maybe its my cycle? (apparantly men have cycles too?)