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lizard
February 16th, 2007, 10:00 PM
Well I just admitted Im bi. That's not the problem. The problem is that I don't wanna tell my friends or family. Is that wrong that I won't tell tell them Do I have to tell them? Is it important to tell them? PLEASE HELP!

~Dazed&&Confused~
February 17th, 2007, 07:24 AM
are you sure you're bi.. you could just be curious.. how old are you?.. dont tell anyone till your really sure..

chuckroast
February 17th, 2007, 08:22 AM
i actually have a simillar problem, im out to my closest friends (like 5 of them) bbut im not ready to tell anyone else, i think its ok to just move along slowly with it.

rEpReSsIoN.?
February 20th, 2007, 07:09 PM
It took me like 2-3 years since finding out im bi that i told anyone i was bi. I did'nt think about telling anyone when i first found out. There will come a day maybe years from now u will want 2 come out to someone. And one day your family will have to know because e.g. boyfriends

Kamloops.man
February 20th, 2007, 07:17 PM
This comes up all the time. Ok first of all if your friends don't like bi people or you being bi then I guess they're not REAL friends are they? As for your relatives I don't know. But I think you should casually ask if any of your friends are homophobes [[people who are scared/don't like bi/gay people]]. And then see.

Mirataku
March 30th, 2007, 11:15 AM
Im Bi too. Dont worry about this. If you are Bi, it is who you are as a person. Your family should respect that.

Everglow
March 30th, 2007, 01:16 PM
i wish i was upfront about it with my parents...they found out a few days ago...from my boyfriend's sister...i'm still on spring break in italy and...let's just say they are pretty pissed.

Miss.Suicide
April 16th, 2007, 11:04 AM
I'd known I was bi for about 3 years before me and my best friend came out to each other, since then I've told a few people but only because the subject came up in conversation. I don't really see why I should tell people I'm Bi. Straight people don't come out and tell people they are straight right? So why should gays/lesbians/bis =] That's just my opinion. Your parents don't need to know, neither do your friendss. Just treat it like others treat being straight =]
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Ironic Infidel In England
April 19th, 2007, 06:37 AM
Smooth sailing? Get real. Even if they accept him/her (I don't know), it's going to be one of the hardest things Lizard will ever do.