Problems with friends at school...

[thisisjohn]

I may not have as big as a problem as other people do on this topic, but maybe people can help me anyways.

Well it goes something like this, I DO have friends at school, but no best friend, and it actually makes me sad going home everyday knowing that I'm not gonna have any kind of support the next day. All my other friends at school, when they hang out with their friends, (not best friends) they're always planning an event, and usually I'm not invited... how can I get friends like this? I'm always so lonely at home. I'm never going out to the movies or anybody's house while they actually are. Why is this? I don't really mean to add a pointless post like this and have you fine people read it when instead you could be reading somebody else's important post, I just need some help, please.

[rob]

i was like that too. eventually you will find someone who you will connect with. Try inviting people over to your house or to the movies;people will return the favor

[thesphinx]

dont worry you will find your group of good friends, in the meen time i know it can suck but you have to just wait,
maybe they dont invite you because they think you dont wanna come?
maybe try inviting them to something and then they will know you wanna hang out with them.
just a thought
if you wanna talk pm me!
ill talk about anything with you :)

[Hyper]

Be glad.. I have no friends except for one who now lives 100 miles away from me who doesn't even know how ****** I and my life is and hes 5 years older than me ;P

[Bobby]

i was like that too. eventually you will find someone who you will connect with. Try inviting people over to your house or to the movies;people will return the favor

Like he said, try inviting people over to your house, or to the movies. They'll be more likely to respond.

I think this belongs in Relationships...


Moving TO Relationships

[Underground_Network]

I have the same problem. I'm basically popular at my school, in the sense that i'm friends with almost every body. I have lots of friends, but no best friend, and other than like birthday parties or other huge events (such as the Super Bowl) i rarely go out with my friends. I can't say i don't communicate with them outside of school though, because that would be a lie. I talk to most of my friends over the computer, and i'm kind of anti-social outside of school. I really don't like to hang out, and the last time i was at a friend's house just for the fun of it was like 2 or 3 years ago. My only true best friend lives in another state, so its tough, and i really don't know anyone i can connect with or thats like me. I think though, that if you ask them to invite you, or if you get a little more involved and open with them they may start to let you go to events with them. Most of my closest friends really don't hang out, they mostly spend time on their computers or on their own somewhere. Once your friends gain your trust and you show some interest in their interests they should let you hang out with them. I hope my advice helps. (Not just you, but me too, lol)