How to know

[Koffing]

Hey all,

I think i'm gay. I am looking for this boy 3 months now and I'm sick of waiting...
I really like him and we are best friends. Only the problem is, I don't know if I'm really in love with him. I never felt really atractif to girls and I think since 3years ago I started looking guys. i really thing they have a awsome body and I like the way they are... I think that i'm gay then???

But i really like this guy. we are in same class and we are best friends. In a few days he and a few more friend are coming over for a sleepover and I wanna tell him what i think of him then... But I really don't have to eggs to say it to him if you know what I mean... :(
It as almost sure that we are both sleeping in the same room. How can I say it to him the best way?

One thing that happend and from what i think that he is a bit gay too is that he is almost very hyper and a few times when we played soccer he feld my dick (And I liked it...) :D

Sorry for the very long post and thanks in advance ;)

[prob1996]

I know how you feel. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with my best friend. We've been friends for a few years and are really close. We've also been doing stuff together for the last yr or so. Problem is I don't think he knows how much I really love him.
First off, the gay thing...don't worry if your gay or not. it's just a label. U like boys, so what, so do I. my attraction to girls seems to come and go. So idk, if i had to pick a label--I go with bi. (for now :) )
I would be cautious in telling him how much u like him. Espcially at the slepover if there other guys around. U dont' know how he's going to react and it could be disasterous. Don't mean to sound negative but I would really ease into. You said he kinda grabbed you. Take it from there. If you guys get some alone time, see if he wants to experiment or let him know ur open to experiment (again, only if ur comfortable with it) and see where it goes from there. It is hard to say because your going to have to judge it as it happens. If he reacts positively, then see if you can slip it into conversation. If negatively, well back off a bit and at least you'll know your boundries. Hopes this helps. Wish you the best of luck!!! :) let me know how it turns out.
VM or Pm me if you want to talk further.

[Koffing]

I don't worrie if I'm gay or not. I don't really care what other people think of that ;)

Thanks of the comment. But I don't know if I dare to ask him... :whoops:

[Mynameisconner]

Maybe just imply it with body language. I would have to omit doing that at the sleepover though. I think if you really want to know you could just "ease into it" by maybe messing around a little bit and just go with the flow. You'll be able to tell if he likes it by how he reacts to everything.

[Koffing]

So you say that i just have to wait longer and see what happends?

[Tristin.]

be you and just watch what he does, use your body language and expressions to convey what you feel. if you see anything in return, ask him, dont think about it, dont worry, juswt say it. be blunt, be quick, dont let fear over come you. let it play out from there:)

[Mynameisconner]

Not rushing will definately provide a better opportunity for you to have a better realization about everything.

[Koffing]

I just heard that we all gonna sleep in one room so I just have to wait for the right moment ;) Thanks for the comments! :D

[Tristin.]

just use your body language and gauge his reactions :)

[Koffing]

Ok I will. thanks! ;)