Serious Bullying

[Solvez18]

Hi, i just joined the forums to talk about how much i get bullied and im looking 4 help. You see, this kid at school always hits me and uses horrible language towards me. I don't understand we used 2 be friends. Can someone plz help he also hits my friend and my mum isn't happy about it.

[Love.Hate]

We are all here to help, i have lots of experience with bullies. Im here to talk, my best advice is stand up for yourself. I know thats hard, but it makes the bully realise theat your not standing for their shit. They learn to back down, within time.

[CaliKid24]

Tell a teacher? Do you know why he does this?

[Solvez18]

ive tried telling him 2 back off but he gets mad and tries 2 fight. i back down so i dont start a crowd and teachers just say ignore it but i tried

[Triceratops]

Define "horrible language".

[CaliKid24]

ive tried telling him 2 back off but he gets mad and tries 2 fight. i back down so i dont start a crowd and teachers just say ignore it but i tried

Teachers said to ignore it? wtf is wrong with them, go to the principal?

[Solvez18]

1. language swearing, mocking me and my family, saying atleast his dad didnt nearly die of drugs... etc 2. my principal n i dont have a good rep because i used 2 hang with the wrong groups

[CaliKid24]

1. language swearing, mocking me and my family, saying atleast his dad didnt nearly die of drugs... etc 2. my principal n i dont have a good rep because i used 2 hang with the wrong groups

ok, u mentioned ur mom earlier, explain how she gets involved with this?

[Solvez18]

my mum is the first person who found out and who noticed the bullying start at my house 1 day

[CaliKid24]

What has she done about it?

[Solvez18]

well he, cyber bullied me once and my mum made him shut up in front of my friends on skype

[CaliKid24]

Ok, well idk where ur from or how ur school works, but IF ur principal and teachers are not doing anything about it, than take it to the district, or like the superintendent, If its really serious than remember that cyber bullying is against the law.

[Solvez18]

I suppose i should try harder 2 fix it he plays many games i do and the only game im a mod on he is 1 as well sadly and he bullies me on there. not a good example as a mod now is he

[CaliKid24]

no, bullying is the thing that pisses me off the most. im like the bully to the bullies. i help the bullied lol.

[Solvez18]

hes so annoying im sick of it

[DJZS]

go to the police.

[Solvez18]

Uh, idk if i should goto the police about it.

[DJZS]

if it gets bad enough then you should.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Well if your teachers say "Ignore it" Then go to the principle and tell him/her your concerns,nobody should have to put up with someone elses BS. And if that doesnt do anything,maybe ask your mom to write a letter to the school,he shouldnt be allowed to get away with this.

[kuuliluuk]

There are few options. First would be like stay away from him as much as possible. Make yourself inaccessible for him. If that isn't possible you should think of some trick that makes him feel very bad only he couldn't touch you, knowing that you could do something very bad to him. You know him better. Use his own weapons if possible. Or You should take a video of at least one case of him bullying you. The harder he hits you the better. Then you could threaten him with police. Make him being afraid of you. Be serious and determined while talking him, and act your words if necessary, it could make him back down.

[Solvez18]

good idea, thanks

[LittlePaperStars]

Teachers said to ignore it? wtf is wrong with them, go to the principal?

I agree. This happened to my friend once. His friends took a trip to the principal. The principal told us that my friend needed to come talk. When she didn't take him seriously, his parents got involved.

If they don't listen to you, get your mom or dad in there.

[JackShephard]

I always used to annoy my bully by making him look stupid. He wasn't very bright so it skews pretty easy. He kinda reminded me of Dudly from the Harry Potter series. But, whoever mentioned that once you have something to scare him, he should quit, they are absolutely right. Well in my experience, it wasn't a sudden stop, but a slow one. I'm assuming that your not in high school yet. As soon a I was in high school, people just stopped bullying each other all together. It's like all the bullies started thinking "Hey, I'm going to be stuck with these people for a while, maybe I should try being nice."

[DoctorNewbie]

Personally, if he's cyber-bullying you, I'd want you to take it to the police. Since it is illegal, nothing is wrong with getting the law involved.

[judahtics]

everyone here has given great advice, teachers, principle, district. sorry none of it has worked. your next step would have to be the police, but it will have to wait until he becomes a danger to you. remember, words hurt, but they are just words. sorry your dad has an addiction, or had one, but don't let him through that in your face. also, who cares if he mocks you and your family, he's trying to get a rise out of you and if you swing first, his swing is self defense. so protect yourself, but don't start anything.

i'm a bully in all honesty. i mess with people all the time. it's how i entertain myself.

[Sgt.WC]

what u need lad is to make body strength! Im was never bullied for one is u act like ur threatnin.. when the lads that bother u see this they will leave..

[kuuliluuk]

what u need lad is to make body strength! Im was never bullied for one is u act like ur threatnin.. when the lads that bother u see this they will leave..

Being strong isn't enough. And even if your mind is strong too it could not be enough yet.
As in my case, I changed the school and I wasn't welcomed. Still don't know why. It was enough that two of their guys being stronger than me. And they could always hide themselves behind him. Weaker boys than me never confronted me when they were completely alone, without immediate assistance. In the crowd they were allways "brave" to spit, make fun of me or just anything. That will grind down your morale and willingness to fight. Slowly, until you just accept being that thing in the corner.

[Ambrosia]

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