questioning my sexuality

[death_to_my_heart]

well i am bi but im questioning me being bi for me being gay bc i ussualy thonk about guys and girls but i have now been thinking of guys awhole lot more dose this mean im gay???

and if u r going throiugh this too add me :yeah:

[CaliKid24]

Remember that being Bi means that you like guys and girls, but not always equally, so thats something to remember.

[death_to_my_heart]

thanks so much

[Unlucky_Leprechaun]

It goes and comes in cycles.. Being in the crossroads sometimes you feel torn and confused. Going through puberty does alot to you, not only physical but emotional. Most of these posts seem to center on physical changes and overlook or down play the emotional side. To me, I can handle the physical stuff for the most part but the emotional side gets to me... why I think a certain way and how I respond and looking and second guessing my response sometimes. Mental changes for puberty are rough..I say just sit back and relax and try to take things slow and it will all work out. Str8/bi/gay its all labels...who you ultimately decide to spend your life with and what makes you happy should be at the forefront of who you are. Good Luck

[death_to_my_heart]

thanks guys

[CryWolf]

I've been dealing with this a lot myself. I am physically attracted to both girls and guys but I seem to be emotionally attracted to guys mostly. So yeah I've been questioning too.
Just give it time and don't panic man. Things will come into focus for you. :)

[prob1996]

I've been dealing with this a lot myself. I am physically attracted to both girls and guys but I seem to be emotionally attracted to guys mostly. So yeah I've been questioning too.
Just give it time and don't panic man. Things will come into focus for you. :)

^^same^^

sexuality is very fluid, some people definitely know one or another but there are various degrees in the middle. Try not to worry about it too much.

[death_to_my_heart]

thanks guys

[Michigan48111]

you might be, might not be. I have had those thoughts too, and still don't know if I am gay or bi....but I know what way I am leaning.

[Mynameisconner]

I added you because I think I can relate to you. Message me if you have any questions!

[Kdude146]

I think your bi cuz sometimes when I jack off I think of guys other times girls

[JimmyD]

Don't question yourself. I'm straight and perfectly fine with it.

[zakky666]

Dont worry about it. You will like what you like. When you get turned on you will like alot of different stuff. And when your not, that stuff will seem not as appealing. Dont use labels to describe yourself. If you did then youd be a just like everyone else. Your you, so be you, not what some label says you are.

[adam1995]

Dont worry about it. You will like what you like. When you get turned on you will like alot of different stuff. And when your not, that stuff will seem not as appealing. Dont use labels to describe yourself. If you did then youd be a just like everyone else. Your you, so be you, not what some label says you are.

Took the words out of my mouth...:) Why do you need to label yourself? Especially at 13... Just go with the flow, let your hormones calm down and see how you feel in 3 or 4 years. Cheers

[death_to_my_heart]

thanks for the help guys i appreciate it

[jonjon1998]

I agree with the guys above. I'm saying that i'm straight, but at 13 who the heck knows, i could wake up tomorrow with different feelings.

[death_to_my_heart]

I agree with the guys above. I'm saying that i'm straight, but at 13 who the heck knows, i could wake up tomorrow with different feelings.

thanks

[americankidinjapan]

It goes and comes in cycles.. Being in the crossroads sometimes you feel torn and confused. Going through puberty does alot to you, not only physical but emotional. Most of these posts seem to center on physical changes and overlook or down play the emotional side. To me, I can handle the physical stuff for the most part but the emotional side gets to me... why I think a certain way and how I respond and looking and second guessing my response sometimes. Mental changes for puberty are rough..I say just sit back and relax and try to take things slow and it will all work out. Str8/bi/gay its all labels...who you ultimately decide to spend your life with and what makes you happy should be at the forefront of who you are. Good Luck

I agree. I feel that, like I always end my posts, "It's just a phase". Its happening to me too as we speak.

[ajpofp]

well i am bi but im questioning me being bi for me being gay bc i ussualy thonk about guys and girls but i have now been thinking of guys awhole lot more dose this mean im gay???

and if u r going throiugh this too add me :yeah:

I really feel the same way. But meh. I am bi and bi is what I'm gonna be

[death_to_my_heart]

thanks guys

[lamar5559]

All that means if you have a preference for guys. If you still like girls even a little, your bi.

[death_to_my_heart]

All that means if you have a preference for guys. If you still like girls even a little, your bi.

thanks