TOO SMALL boobs.

[ViolinPro]

Guys, Im 13 years old, (i have just turned 13) and my boobs are the size of peanuts. WHAT SHOULD I DO. I just dont know what. Everybodys laughing at me in school, saying that "ohh, how old are you, nine??" and I could've died right there. :( :( :( :(

PLEASE HELP ME

Thanks

[Bobby]

There is nothing you can do really but wait. If you want you could stuff your bra, or wear a padded one.

[ViolinPro]

sorry, i dont have a bra, theyre smaller than you think. maybe in a year ill get a bra, probably an AAAAA size or something like that.

i feel downcast and very bad.
kk xoxoxoxoox

[Glasgow]

Aww dont worry, in my school there are plenty of girls your age who are "flat." And nobody really gets criticized. Some girls grow faster than others, and the people that comment on your breast size shuold really show a little more class

[ViolinPro]

thank you messiah and the mod. but in my school, i didnt see A SINGLE person who had at least an B size bra. i still feel bad even though i know that it all goes by the genetics.

k xoxoxoxo

[schrei jess]

The best thing you can do to feel more comfortable right now is to get a bra. Talk to your mother and tell her about your problem and how it is making you feel. She should understand. Buy yourself a padded bra, but not drastically padded otherwise you'll look ridiculous - one day flat the next day fully developed, know what I mean? I hope that helped.

And Ive been through what you are going through, not exactly as I started developing in 5th grade, but please feel free to PM me and talk to me and get advice - Ill be happy to help, I understand how it is for you.

[ViolinPro]

thanksss bedroom, i did talk to her already like twice,and she its still too early.
i wish though.

kk xoxoxoxoxox

[schrei jess]

Hmm, okay maybe I can help you out with this from a different angle.

I remember the first day I got a bra. I hadnt even planned to get one that day, we were looking through the undies and my mother just started looking through the bras and that's basically how it happened. Maybe if you and your mother go for a shopping trip, just have her look through the undies with you and maybe she'll decide you're ready for bras? Maybe not, just an idea.

Do you have friends you go shopping with, like without parents? If you do, you could just buy a bra secretly and your mother wouldnt have to know about it.

[Underground_Network]

You shouldn't feel like an outcast. Eventually you'll outgrow some of the other girls in your school and breast size isn't the biggest thing that a guy cares about when it comes to girls. Ignore the people who make fun of you and if it gets too out of hand you can get them in trouble by telling the principal/vp or whoever is in charge of discipline at your school. Making fun of someones breast size is 100% harassment and people can get in trouble for it. I also know that going from flat chested, to wearing an overly padded bra is probably a strange change and may cause more embarrasment. I'm a guy, but there was a girl at my school who went from flat chested to barrel-chested and it was ridiculous. I actually crushed on that girl until she attempted that. Breast size isn't all that matters. Give it time your still young.

[ViolinPro]

thanks everyone who have given me these helful advices.

bedroom, we did that with my mom, we went through the undies. She didnt even look at the bras, like she was maybe a little bit embarrassed of something.

and... i dont go with friends shopping alone without parents, not just because my mom doesnt let me do it, its my own will. I think its low class to be so young and shop alone. and... also.. i dont think buying a bra without my mom knowing it will not work because we share one bedroom, and she'll find out certaintly.

thanks anyway (plz im not trying to offend your advices)

kk xoxoxoxoxoxxox

[chelsea714]

hey i know how you feel girlfriend - I'm fifteen and i'm a 34A. I know it sucks when people say stuff about it...it's pretty lame that people will make fun of you for something you can't do anything about. Anyways, just check out the magazine vogue. it's a real confidence booster to see those beautiful women that men would die for, and they don't have any boobs

[ViolinPro]

im sorry i meant helpful advices

[ViolinPro]

youre right chelsea thanks :)

[chelsea714]

yeah no problem

[Bobby]

Hey violinpro, try not to double post in the future...don't worry about it this time but try not to do it again :D

[schrei jess]

Ergh not to shoot down Chelsea's help or anything but the women in vogue have no boobs because they do not eat and diet to be so skinny, therefore losing their boobs. The are definetly beautiful but it isnt natural.

[ViolinPro]

any more advices?? nevertheless thnks

kk xoxoxoxoxoxox

[The Resurrected One]

Well, don't feel bad. Lots of girls in my school have small breasts. Like, there is this one chick in Grade 9, and she doesn't even have the smallest bit of breasts yet! They look like mine, except...smaller! lol

So yeah, the people who make fun of you are stupid. I wouldn't make fun of anybody because of how their body looks like. Even if they are 1,568 pounds. So...yeah, just wait for it. As I said, chicks older than you probably have smaller breasts than you do...so...yeah.

Hope I did something good here...lol

[bmoy1920]

dont worry just make sure u dont stuff....that is the worst mistake u could make

[ViolinPro]

guys, I wnted to tell you sumthing,
this may be weird, im 13, my boobs are wayyyyyyyyyy looooooooong way from a bra and I still dont have my period.
but... my public hair started growing when I was 10.

[Gumleaf]

if you can find me someone who hasn't had some part of their puberty experience seem weird you will be going well. i was a bit different too i have discovered, because i was able to cum a little before i even had pubic hair and my penis was like over 5" long and only 3.5" in girth but it has all started to even itself out. so basically i'm saying is that it will all sort itself out in time and if there is anything i've learnt from this forum is that we are all normal in our own way. i know its frustrating, cause i'm frustrated about parts of my development as well, but we all just have to try and be patient.

[dannyley]

U will grow with time, there were many girls wen i was 13 that were small now that we are 15 they have all grown and are huge!

[ViolinPro]

thank u guys, im quite happy now, my boobs are now visible, and i have a lot of hair down there! i learned how to be happy with what I am and are

[kikicupkake]

omfg i hate my boobs their biger than any one i know and they have stech marks all over them but dont be alamed man should like you for how you are. O, and ps im 13 too =.="

[someonelovesme14]

hey, well i am 15 and i'm only a bra size aa or very small a, when i was your age i was really flat chested too, so honestly don't worry about there are loads of people out there like you :) and your still young so don't worry about it, it's better because it means that you'll start your periods later than earlier developers ( im assuming you havent already started) which is definately a good thing! so just remember how lucky you are ! and if you want buy a bra in a really small size or a padded one to make you feel like you have boobs! :) hope that helps a bit x

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[Randy93]

hey nice to hear you've learned to be happy with who you are because dose guys at school must just be jealous of something you have that they don't or maybe their life isn't what they want it to be so they try to make every one else life worste. just keep in mind that they will always have "haters" out there so best just learn to live with it, as i have. hope this advice is useful.

[ThePhantom]

I shouldnt be here, but guys really dont care.

[Aηdy]

I shouldnt be here

So go away then :) This is getting old now.. I think it's been solved.

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