Goes soft right before ejaculation?

[CarolinaDude]

if I jack off while just lying in bed or whatever, I always seem to go soft (well not flaccid soft, but like semi-erect) RIGHT before I blow, and the whole session seems to take longer than when I watch porn. This started happening kinda recently and I'm concerned that it'll happen in a more important situation like actual sex. Does anyone else get this?

BTW, it does not happen if I watch porn. maybe when I jack off without it, I'm just not turned on enough? But I don't wanna develop some kinda dependency on porn to keep me going..

[Scoob]

Had this for a while. Trust me, it doesn't go over to actual sex. You will be as hard as a rock when it comes to real life because it's real life. You'll see what I mean xD.

[CarolinaDude]

Haha that's what I was thinking (and hoping). Thanks for the reassurance!

[Scoob]

Haha that's what I was thinking (and hoping). Thanks for the reassurance!

No problem man, I was worried as hell myself when this first happened. All doubt cleared away pretty quick when I got down to it though ;).

[SomeGuyFromHere]

But I don't wanna develop some kinda dependency on porn to keep me going..

You're absolutely right there. I can't exactly tell you what to do, but you need to be really careful if you're struggling without porn.

[Peterapetera96]

happens to me too

[VamosToro]

Just had it happen, its sort of wierd.

[thebill75921]

How could you get soft?!?!!?! think about busting your warm load of cum all over your body!!! that will turn you back on!

[Unsolvedmind]

I have never heard of this before so Idk