View Full Version : GF coming over...
LuckyLuke
July 2nd, 2011, 11:46 PM
Thank you everyone,
event has passed :)
Sage
July 2nd, 2011, 11:57 PM
Stop thinking about it and just do whatever you would have done if she were anyone else. There's no reason to be so anxious about it.
Dog Desab
July 3rd, 2011, 12:06 AM
lol yea be chill about it. Also I'd recommend putting the futon in the bed position, just in case you wanna do a lil more than kiss (wink wink) :P
Kayden
July 3rd, 2011, 02:58 AM
I agree with Jack, put it in the bed position :P
But yeah, just relax about it.
mrbob360
July 3rd, 2011, 07:43 AM
my adivce dont over think it as u seen in tv ou over think it things go wrong so just do whaterver comes natural and whatever is confortable as for the kissing part the same thing let it come naturally
Magenta
July 3rd, 2011, 02:55 PM
- She said her favorite "older" movie is 16 Candles and she said that awhile back, should I rent that, find a different movie or ask her?
Well, you can't go wrong with 16 Candles, just saying. :P If she said awhile back that it's her favourite and you surprise her with it, I'm sure she'll appreciate it. It shows that you listen to her and remember these things.
- How do I make her feel comfortable in my room/on my bed? I've never really had anyone over my house (it's small so there's really not much to do).
Just act natural. There's no reason to be that nervous. Three months is long enough that you two are comfortable around each other and this is no different than any date, just another (if more personal) setting.
- When watching the movies, when's the opportune time to kiss her?
You'll know when it's time. Obviously, the goal is not to kiss her, just to enjoy your time together. If you think a time is appropriate, go for it!
- My bed's a futon so it can either be made into a couch-esque thing or a bed.. which position should I put it in?
Personally, I'd say bed because there's more room for two people, space for cuddling, hugging, etc. That and I own a futon and I find those things to be horrendously uncomfortable in the "couch" position.
To conclude, just be yourself and enjoy yourself and you'll both feel like it's totally natural and not really a new thing. Good luck and have fun!
mayerrose96
July 4th, 2011, 03:02 AM
I agree with Jack, put it in the bed position :P
But yeah, just relax about it.
Yeah,i agree.
Hope4u
July 5th, 2011, 10:12 AM
stop over thinking things...yes her favorite movie would be a good start..it shows that you paid attention to what she said..but get a few more in case she just watched it again or isn't in the mood to watch it...for the Futon..just ask her what she wants..what she would feel more comfortable with....and with the kiss...if it happens..then it happens..that's it.
Derek951
July 6th, 2011, 02:35 AM
1) Def rent the movie. But don't make it the only movie for her to pick from.
2) She'll be comfortable if you are comfortable. so no dirty socks laying around. lol
3) Just depends man.
4) I would start out with it as a couch, and then ask at some point if it would be more comfortable to make it a bed. I bet she would say yes.
Upintheair
July 31st, 2011, 06:00 PM
aww luke :) but i agree, renting her favorite movie is a really nice gesture! it shows that you actually listen to her and care about what she likes! If your comfortable, then so will she! Dont overthink things too much and just act like you always do! I always like it when im watching a movie and the guy im with holds my hand or puts his arm around me because I think its sweet! and the best time to kiss her would be the romantic part of the movie :) and i think a futon would be the safest bet! Good luck Luke! Have fun ;)
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