jhv222
July 2nd, 2011, 08:51 PM
Well, i just graduated high school, and I didnt want a girlfriend really since i figured I would be going off to college after high school and would have to deal with the whole long distance thing.
This past senior year I decided that i was going to the local community college for two years instead of going to a regular college, which means ill be around my town still.
I have always been friends with tons of girls and have always been the nice guy, most girls loved me as a friend. Since i didnt ahve a girlfriend the only time i would get any action would be at parties but there almost everyone is drunk and people are loose anyways.
Recently, at a party (with no alcohol), I met a girl who is going to be a senior at the school i just graduated from. She is pretty cute and I went up and talked to her for a bit, broke the "touch barrier" and all that. I plan on askin her out like next weekend to go watch a movie with her, since she said she wanted to see Horrible Bosses.
But im trying to break out of my nice guy habits since it puts me right in teh friends zone, im still going to be nice, but just wanna be more playful.
An example would be at one point in the party she put a piece of ice down and i just jumped and turned around and we laughed about it. I was wondering if there was something more i could have done, like have gone and grabbed her around the waist playfully and act as if i was going to dump her in teh ice water. shes a playful girl and i think she may have liked that but im not sure.
im kind of a quite guy but im not really shy at all.
any advice that would help be more flirtatious would be great. Mainly touching more, but anything would help. sorry for the long post, I tried to keep it short but might have ended up making it a bit confusing without all the detail. If any parts are hazy ill further explain the.
Thanks,
Jason
This past senior year I decided that i was going to the local community college for two years instead of going to a regular college, which means ill be around my town still.
I have always been friends with tons of girls and have always been the nice guy, most girls loved me as a friend. Since i didnt ahve a girlfriend the only time i would get any action would be at parties but there almost everyone is drunk and people are loose anyways.
Recently, at a party (with no alcohol), I met a girl who is going to be a senior at the school i just graduated from. She is pretty cute and I went up and talked to her for a bit, broke the "touch barrier" and all that. I plan on askin her out like next weekend to go watch a movie with her, since she said she wanted to see Horrible Bosses.
But im trying to break out of my nice guy habits since it puts me right in teh friends zone, im still going to be nice, but just wanna be more playful.
An example would be at one point in the party she put a piece of ice down and i just jumped and turned around and we laughed about it. I was wondering if there was something more i could have done, like have gone and grabbed her around the waist playfully and act as if i was going to dump her in teh ice water. shes a playful girl and i think she may have liked that but im not sure.
im kind of a quite guy but im not really shy at all.
any advice that would help be more flirtatious would be great. Mainly touching more, but anything would help. sorry for the long post, I tried to keep it short but might have ended up making it a bit confusing without all the detail. If any parts are hazy ill further explain the.
Thanks,
Jason