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[ImCoolBeans]

i made out with this girl, and now she thinks im in love with her for some reason... and i can't get her off of my case. what can i do to make her realize i don't like her without crushing her

[Dimitri]

This is when you just need to sit down and talk it out with her, but I am sorry I need to play the part of the older sibeling here.

1. Why did you make out with her if you didnt mean anything.
2. You dont make out with someone, in my opinion that you are not serious with.

[User Deleted]

*facepalm*

Well you might have to hurt her feelings. You don't "make out" with someone unless you are truly emotionally connected and care for each other.

You just have to tell her and hope she will forgive you and be friends. That's the consequence of being irresponsible.

[ImCoolBeans]

she wanted to hook up, what was i gonna say? no?

[Magenta]

Exactly. It's no fair to her if you hook up, make out and don't actually care for her. You could have easily said no thanks. I wouldn't blame her for being a little upset but you need to tell her what's really going on.

Sit her down and just be calm about it. Whatever you do, don't say you made "a mistake". Even if it was, I know girls hate hearing that. Just explain that you don't feel as strongly for her as you think she does for you.

[mrbob360]

should have said no in the first place instead of kissing her and making it out like you did like her but now all i can say is sit down with her and explain your case with her in calm manner wtihout applying that theres something wrong with her