urg, i just am so confuddled!!

[TrAnSMaN09]

First Issue:Sexuality

I used to be a lesbian, And i still fall for girls, i haven't fallen for any guys lately *other then Dylan* but Watching two men together, really turns me on, I can see me doing that with my boy, But I still have feelings for girls,

URG

Second Issue: Gender,
It makes me so happy when dylan calls me tyler, or his handsome boy, And when i think about the future i think about me as male, But, if im shopping or walking down the street and i see a dress store or a jewelry store i still stop and look at everything, seeing what i like, and which ones i want, It does irk me a little if people refer to me as female, But im happy with my body, I'm not going through the same thing as my man,

URGGGGGG IM JUST SOO CONFUSED!!!!

[ackmedsgirl666]

im here to help.. we can get through this together all three of us....
you know im going through the same thing. its a hard choice to make... but if you need support u know u can always talk to me and dylan or anybody else.just keep your head high and eventually things will work out :)

[Magenta]

Oh god, I know this feeling. I have this insane wardrobe that fits either gender because I've always had a bit of confusion. There had been days I'd bind and dress in jeans and a hoodie and then there's days where I'm in all out make up and heels and a dress.

To me, this is a part of growing up. I'm comfortable with experimenting and my friends know me well enough to know it's simply normal for me. I wouldn't let these feelings get to you too much. Do what you like and find what feels more comfortable to you. As you grow older, likely chance is that you'll figure it out.

As for sexuality, that's completely different than your gender orientation. So don't worry about it. Likelihood is that you're bisexual or curious and that's totally okay. As I said, this age is meant to be for experimenting. Go for whatever you want and you'll figure out what you like and what you don't.

PM me anytime. :)

EDIT: Just saw you're under 100 posts. You can VM me or email me off my profile. :)