Can't I just get it right??

[DreamSeeker]

So this new girl is joining my school and I have been talking to her on Facebook, but got nervous and made a pretty bad first impression. I am starting to have feelings for her, but all I talked about was school and the area (As she is from abroad) so I sounded just like a flippin' travel agent.

I feel so stupid, why can't I make a good first impression. Also, I have noticed she's been talking to the kind of "popular" crowd at my school. Most of them absolutely hate me. Plus she's got to know the kid that despises everything about me, so it's ruined it for me as they'll say stuff to her that's not even true and everyone would agree.

Why can't I make a good first impression :(

[LuckyLuke]

You still can! Send out a text, flirt on FB (preferably privately so JA's from your school don't mess with either of you).

These final moments are your only chance, TAKE THEM.

[DreamSeeker]

I don't know what to say though, yesterday I pretty much bored her by talking like a travel agent because I was nervous. Now I don't know what to say. Another thing I noticed is she puts xoxoxox and xxx to messages to everyone else except me. Have I ruined it arleady?

[Magenta]

You haven't ruined it! Most girls know that guys are nervous. Just start talking to her. Ask her questions, ask her about herself. Make it clear that you're interested in knowing more about her. If she is responsive, then there's your hint that you can maybe flirt a bit.

Good luck. Getting the girl can be totally nerve wracking but if you do, it's awesome. :)

[LuckyLuke]

I don't know what to say though, yesterday I pretty much bored her by talking like a travel agent because I was nervous. Now I don't know what to say. Another thing I noticed is she puts xoxoxox and xxx to messages to everyone else except me. Have I ruined it arleady?

The xxx, xoxo thing could be both VERY good or VERY bad because it could mean that she's shy towards you and doesn't want to overwhelm you in that way or turn you away but it could also be bad for obvious reasons.

You have little time to waste, you need to send her a flirty message PRONTO. Stop talking about the village and instead talk about HER. What does she like? Hobbies? Favorite candy? ANYTHING ABOUT HER!

A good convo would be...

You: So do you have any hobbies? :)
Her: Yah, I really like to dance!
You: Oh cool! Me too, there's actually this really great club downtown, we should go sometime!

[DreamSeeker]

The xxx, xoxo thing could be both VERY good or VERY bad because it could mean that she's shy towards you and doesn't want to overwhelm you in that way or turn you away but it could also be bad for obvious reasons.

You have little time to waste, you need to send her a flirty message PRONTO. Stop talking about the village and instead talk about HER. What does she like? Hobbies? Favorite candy? ANYTHING ABOUT HER!

A good convo would be...

You: So do you have any hobbies? :)
Her: Yah, I really like to dance!
You: Oh cool! Me too, there's actually this really great club downtown, we should go sometime!

I tried that yesterday, we started talking about what she liked but then it just turned boring again. I'm afraid to talk to her again... Like I asked her what music and such she's into and she just says read her facebook profile instead of telling me ...

[Magenta]

I tried that yesterday, we started talking about what she liked but then it just turned boring again. I'm afraid to talk to her again... Like I asked her what music and such she's into and she just says read her facebook profile instead of telling me ...

Unfortunately, I think that means she just not that into you. I wouldn't say to stop talking to her entirely unless she tells you to but you may have just gotten unlucky with this one.

Just remember, there are plenty of girls out there and this isn't the last one. So this one got away, go out and catch the next one. :)

[DreamSeeker]

Unfortunately, I think that means she just not that into you. I wouldn't say to stop talking to her entirely unless she tells you to but you may have just gotten unlucky with this one.

Just remember, there are plenty of girls out there and this isn't the last one. So this one got away, go out and catch the next one. :)

That's the thing though, I seem to do this with everyone. Happened last time I met someone new (As everyone who knows me now is either a friend, a boy or hates my guts.

[Magenta]

That's the thing though, I seem to do this with everyone. Happened last time I met someone new (As everyone who knows me now is either a friend, a boy or hates my guts.

It takes practice. Don't let this get you down. Everyone goes through trial and error. So there's been more negative than positive. It happens. Remember, there's also no rush. Wait for someone who you really like then take that leap of faith and talk to her. When you find that right person, they will like you even if you're a little awkward talking to her. :)

[LuckyLuke]

That's the thing though, I seem to do this with everyone. Happened last time I met someone new (As everyone who knows me now is either a friend, a boy or hates my guts.



Yes, I'm sorry but it seems like she's just not that into you. Listen, sometimes you win um, sometimes you lose um. A string of let downs should get you down because this tunnels starting to get brighter. You'll find that girl that appreciates you for you ;)

[Emiil]

just try talk to her in real life instead of facebook..

[Hope4u]

Look...all you can do is be yourself..if you're shy and quiet then that's what you are..why do guys think that every girl they talk to is a potential girlfriend..she has to make up her mind for herself..if she likes the "in crowd" and the guy that hates you..then she does..but stop beating yourself up..I'm sure you "like" her and all..if you're really worried about what these other people are saying about you..then just tell her that "hey..I hope we can do stuff and hang out..but these are some people that I don't usually hang out with because we don't really get along" and let her make up her own mind.

[DreamSeeker]

It's hard, she's not going to fully be at School till September and lots changes in the Summer. I really want to ask her to come to town with me and my cousin or something, but can't get myself to do it what soever. I tried to earlier but got more frightened than ever before.

[chance422]

Tell her how you feel and ask to continue to be friends if she doesn't feel the same!

[Mourfus]

ask her 2 hang out