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Ryukuuzi
July 2nd, 2011, 04:51 PM
I am in a relation for almost 2 years. I dont really know if I like her or not, I dont know if I ever did (never actually felt nothing for everyone so I dont quite know if I do like her). She is a nice girl and I know she loves me and I dont want to hurt her but I just want to be "free" again, yet I can't end the relation.
I have thought about it a lot, but I can't do it. I have became colder because of that and she is starting to notice it but there is nothing I can do. Today she even asked me if I wanted to break up whit her but I couldn't say yes even if I wanted. Everything is alright and we are fine but I don't feel good.
Should I just forget what is going in my mind and not make her suffer?:(

Kayden
July 3rd, 2011, 02:49 AM
You cant continue to lead her on like this. I think It would be best If you just ended it, because your just hurting yourself and hurting her in the long run. But be gentle with the break up, do it face to face and I would'nt recommend telling her that you dont think you ever liked her.

VamosToro
July 3rd, 2011, 03:39 PM
Agree, but do not do the "it's you it's me" thing.

Magenta
July 3rd, 2011, 04:12 PM
Two years if you don't truly love her is a very long time. If even she is voicing your doubts, I think it's time to let go of this relationship. It's difficult, I know it is. You don't want her to suffer in the relationship but you also don't want to hurt her by breaking up. However, I think the sting of the break up will fade faster than being stuck in a relationship that was never really working.

Sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and apologize. In the end, yes, you'll both hurt but it will fade and if you're lucky you can still be friends. Breaking off a relationship is not like you're killing the person. You'll both still be there and hopefully still be there for each other.

Hope it works out for you both!