Don't know how. Help!

[Blake_95]

I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual and it's killing me to tell someone but I just can't bring myself to do it. I want to tell my best friend but he seems homophobic and I had a christian upbringing so most of my family is against homosexuality so I can't turn to any of them. I really want to come out of the closet, and SOON! HELP? I really hate this burden........

[lenny774]

Well what grade are you in?

[User Deleted]

If you are Bi just wait and see if you have a preference. If you are so desperate to come out of the closet... there's not many options than being brave and telling him.

[DJZS]

If you feel like things will be okif you come out then you should come out. If you think coming out will cause harm then dont come out. I know what your going through, but things will get better, just do what you feel comfortable with.

[Magenta]

The easiest way is often with a close friend. My best friend came out actually by asking me out, haha. She knew that even if I said no, she was comfortable enough around me that it would be okay and I would not judge her either way. It made it easier to test the response with a close friend. A lot of people know now though and she's been fine. :)

[Dimitri]

In my opinion I would say you should come out to a friend and if you are sure you should tell your friend, a friend should accept you however you are and not shun you for being who you are.

[Blake_95]

I'm in grade 11. Thanks for all your advice, I think I'll tell my friend. Just not yet.

[DJZS]

I'm in grade 11. Thanks for all your advice, I think I'll tell my friend. Just not yet.

Ok, let us know how it goes when you tell them

[Kayden]

You should'nt rush things like this. But come out to a close friends and take it slow.