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ajp1993
July 1st, 2011, 01:37 PM
I've only ever had sex with condoms (except once) but my mates say it's better without.
What are peoples views on this? I'd be tempted to suggest it comdoms can be so unsexy but obviously theres the pregnancy problem
Dog Desab
July 1st, 2011, 02:26 PM
Better without but there is always the risk of pregnancy that's why I only have sex with girls who I know are using birth control.
Brighteyes
July 1st, 2011, 02:39 PM
Let me just say that if I were still single (am now engaged) there is NO WAY on this planet that I would EVER allow a guy to have sex with me without using a condom, even if I was on the pill.
Just remember guys it won't be you who ends up pregnant, gives birth and then finds that the guy has done a runner.....So if you have true honest feelings for the girl you're making love to, then do the decent and honourable thing and wear protection every time.....Don't be one sided and selfish just for your own enjoyment and pleasure.
Alice
July 1st, 2011, 02:53 PM
Yeah, it's better with out but if you're concerned about pregnancy, and she's not on any kind of BC, condoms are the only way to go.
Mattyboy2
July 1st, 2011, 04:24 PM
Defo better without, but you don't wanna catch sumat nasty cuz you can still gets loads of stuff even if they're on the pill
LuckyLuke
July 1st, 2011, 08:11 PM
Well, yes... unprotected sex feels better than sex with condoms but you know what feels even better? That warm feeling you get knowing that you're not diseased ridden or going to end up on "16 & Pregnant".
Pancakes
July 1st, 2011, 08:35 PM
Yep I only tried once without condoms I loved it but I am sticking to condoms for now. :P
hotasian95
July 1st, 2011, 08:42 PM
Like everyone said, its better without a condom but the girl has to be on birth control and disease free...
Shining Star
July 14th, 2011, 10:58 PM
Yea sex does feel amazing without a condom and I enjoy doing it bare. But if she isnt on any birth control, I always use a condom.
Buckhunter
July 15th, 2011, 02:36 AM
do not ditch the condom, it is not worth it. i have done it with and with out, and with out is scary not knowing if the girl is prego and thinking she is
Angel Androgynous
July 15th, 2011, 04:45 AM
Not only does the girl have to be on birth control and disease free, but YOU also have to be disease free! Don't take the risk, get tested, use protection.
I know I wouldn't allow a guy to have sex with me without a condom. Even if I was on the pill. I'd get tested and advise him to do the same. It's all for safety. (:
Weeping
July 15th, 2011, 08:41 AM
Use a condom. Whatever if it feels better without, I don't think that'll matter the day you end up making someone pregnant.
I guess if you've been in a steady relationship pretty long (that's not one month, which a lot of people think nowadays -.-), you both get tested for STD's and use some other kind of contraceptives, then it's fine.
Kaius
July 15th, 2011, 08:45 AM
Depends if she's on her period and if she wants to be pregnant. If you're only doing it for "fun", then condoms would be advisable.
Whether she wants to be pregnant or not its still unwise to have unprotected sex, you've got to remember a child is a lifetime commitment not just something you can pass off. Not only is pregnancy a risk you've also got to remember the risk of STIs.
I don't know about you but I'd rather have sex without the maximum amount of pleasure for 40 minutes or something than have a lifetime commitment to a child i wasn't ready to support, or end up with an STI I could have avoided.
TheBigUnit
July 15th, 2011, 01:21 PM
You can do it without condoms but u should take birth control and all hormonal pills and the morning after pill, that is if u don't wanna be pregnant
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