Going to different schools.

[BigbucksA]

Ok, so the girl I have been going steady with (only because I am out of town) told me that she is going to a different school next year. This worries me because we might not get to see each other, or she might just move on before I get the chance to ask her out. It would not be too easy for me to just let her go. I am worried that maybe, she might not stay faithful to me, because the school is in a different city. I asked her what she wants to do about us, and she didnt seem to think it mattered to her.

[Contra]

I know it won't be easy, but if it looks like this doesn't matter to her, it would probably be better for you if you'd let her go.

[VamosToro]

It depends why she left, if she's moving to a different town or if she's switching for educational reasons, you should stay with her because she either can't control it, or she wants a good future for herself. If she's leaving because she wants to, dump her.

[Magenta]

Unfortunately, the reality of long-distance relationships as a teen just aren't as positive as we'd hope. We're teenagers. We want to get out there and take advantage of these years, experiment, try new things. Sadly, with someone another city over, we can't do this. This is actually why I broke up with my ex (as well as other reasons).

Also, she doesn't think it really matters? That may be a sign that it's time to let go and move on. Yeah, that's not the nicest thing to have to do but it happens. In the end, it's your decision and we can only advise you.

Good luck and hope it works out! x

[Hope4u]

Like Contra said...if it doesn't matter to her..then she has already made up her mind and it's not in your favor...I'm sorry...let her go.

[Derek951]

Unfortunately, the reality of long-distance relationships as a teen just aren't as positive as we'd hope. We're teenagers. We want to get out there and take advantage of these years, experiment, try new things. Sadly, with someone another city over, we can't do this. This is actually why I broke up with my ex (as well as other reasons).

Also, she doesn't think it really matters? That may be a sign that it's time to let go and move on. Yeah, that's not the nicest thing to have to do but it happens. In the end, it's your decision and we can only advise you.

Good luck and hope it works out! x

Wise advice. Couldn't have said it better myself. The long distance thing hardly ever seems to work, and even if it does, you're cheating yourself out of the full experience that being in a relationship should be.