Is It Worth It?

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Is it worth talking to this guy if im not at all attracted to him?

He insists on texting me, (i don't know why tbh, im not that interesting when i text him!).
He's perfectly nice, but keeps asking to meet up and come round to his house!

Now i like these 2 other guys, neither of which ill ever be able to be with! However im very attracted to both of them and make a real effort to talk to them and see them.

But i don't want to settle with a guy im not physically attracted to, but he's the only one who wants me...

Is it worth settling with the nice boring guy OR wait around for the other two, knowing that nothing will ever happen?

[Blue63]

If you truly don't like the "nice boring guy", you don't have to date him. You don't need to be with someone to be happy. However, this guy seems to like you, and, you never know, he might surprise you. He's nice, that sounds like a good start. Maybe if you spend some time with him, really get to know him, you might be glad you took the chance on him. If he truly bores you, and you spend sometime with him and he drives you crazy, then yes, he might not be for you.

[LuckyLuke]

I prefer personality of appearance but I guess that's "not your cup of tea" :D

As mentioned previously, you don't need a man to be happy. If you're not interested in the first guy, there's no reason to date him and if you're nearing your knees begging for the other two, they're not really worth it, are they?

[youngemma520]

nope ,not worth.

[SuperSuraj]

you have nothing to lose with the nice boring guy imo, you could give him a chance and just try to get to know him as a friend not as a bf or anything

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

thanks guys! :) sometimes its just nice to get an outsiders opinion!!!

[Contra]

If he bores you, you shouldn't date him, that was a relationship meant to fall flat, but perhaps you feel that way about him because you're only thinking of him as someone who likes you. But if you just try to be friends with him, he may surprise you. It's always worth talking to someone nice to you, you may become friends.
About those other two guys, you actually have feelings for them, that is of course a stronger foundation for a relationship, so wait around.

[ajp1993]

You shouldnt go out with someone you dont like because he's the safe boring option. But neither should you wait round for something you know will not happen. Either make something happen or move on. Be honest and level with both sets of guys. What have you got to lose?

[Hope4u]

don't fight so hard for the 2 that you say "you will never get" although I'm not sure why you think that..just to possibly miss out on a good guy that may actually be better for you in the long run.