guy trouble

[Scarlett93]

So I feel kind of weird complaining about my life on this forum... but I don't like talking about it to my friends so here we go. Last summer (so a year ago) one of my middle school friends (whom I hadn't really talked to in high school) and I started texting each other. The conversations were kind of superficial at first but then it got deeper and deeper. We texted everyday sometimes until very late at night. I honestly thought we were going somewhere, but I also felt that I couldn't trust him because at my school he's known for being a lady's man and he actually got suspended for "inappropriate display of affection on school grounds". So basically we kept on talking until the first day of school. On the first day of school we saw each other and he barely glanced at me. From then on we never texted again... it just stopped. I have no idea why, I'm thinking maybe its because when we texted he forgot about what I looked like and that once he was reminded he was grossed out or something. I'm not sure if this makes sense but can someone please tell me what's wrong with me? I mean I have never had a boyfriends or kissed someone and the only time I was close to it, it just abruptly ended :(

[LuckyLuke]

Well, it could be a few things...

- It's possible that he saw you and was either shy or felt like you were too good for him.

- Perhaps he's a user and just used you over the phone to entertain him (uch, some people disgust me)

- It's possible that he now has a girlfriend.

If I may, however, I think you're quite beautiful. If the photos found within your album are, in fact, you, I assure you that your looks are not what's impeding whatever moves he was making.

[Blue63]

Wow, that's disappointing, I'm so sorry to hear that! I can imagine that was crushing to get your hopes up about a relationship and then have it disappear into thin air.

Luke offers some good explanations, I personally think that he is just someone that simply enjoys the chase. The midnight texts, the emotional board game, the daily chit chat, it's, and I say this sadly, probably something he simply used you for. He may have gotten bored and is now doing the same thing to some other girl. Which, quite frankly, sucks.

[Contra]

Yeah, unfortunately that sometimes happens, people are affectionate over the Internet or texts, but then on real life they aren't like that. Perhaps he just wanted to talk to someone during vacations but now that he's on school again, he has other people to talk to, and I think that is just disgusting and hypocrite.
Anyway, you can try and talk to him again, on real life or through a text message, to see what happened. Or you can just leave him alone and focus on other people, I'm sure you'll find someone else who will have a relationship with you that will "go somewhere". ;)
I highly doubt that he thought you were ugly because I saw your pictures and you are one of the most gorgeous people I've ever seen (sorry, I don't mean to sound like a freak).