Question!!!

[sarahtheweber]

Just being curious, but what about a person attracts YOU to them?? Do you have any "deal breakers"?

[Hope4u]

I like a guy to have a good sense of humor and be able to hold a conversation about just about anything...guess the only real deal breakers would be druggies and guys that just go out and get drunk all the time.

[LuckyLuke]

Attracts:

- Honestly and with all seriousness, personality. If I can see that a girl "owns" what she has, has a fierce attitude because she's confident, I think that's really sexy. If she's fun, laughing, outgoing, and smart, that trumps all else.

- Face. The skin, eyes, lips, mouth, ears, hair. All of it's so beautiful and attractive on the right people.

- Shape. Doesn't mean she has to have big breasts, but if she has curves (doesn't have to be fat to have curves), that's sexy ;)

- "That smell"... the one that just overwhelms you with desire.

"Deal Breakers":

- Obese. You can be chubby, plump, have some extra "cushin' for the pushin'" but being obese is a big turn off. It shows that you don't care enough about your body. The ONLY exception I'd make is if I knew the person truly couldn't control it.

- Conceited. Uch.

- Bad attitude. (racist, mean, etc.)

[Emiil]

attracts: personality, someone that understands me, good sense of humor, good looking, nice cock lol. i love nice eyes and hair ;D

deal breakers: too fat, too skinny, too ugly, guys that shave all their body hair :)

[Kiss]

Honestly... Deep voices and nice smell. :P

[Donkey]

Summarised into a few words, cute and cool. I can't really bring myself to date someone unattractive - bad it it might sound; but personality is still exceptionally important - chilled, nice and like-minded. Don't want drama in a relationship :P

Puberty -> R&D

[CarolinaDude]

Attract: Honest, fun, funny, independent, outgoing, friendly

Looks: Generally attractive, shorter than me, perfect size, healthy lookin

Deal breakers: unattractive, obese (both of those are mean, sorry!), too skinny, sour attitude, racist, dumb (also mean :/ but i don't wanna date a total idiot)

I HATE listing those deal breakers cause half of them make me sound really mean and picky, but like the other guy said, I can't bring myself to date someone with unattractive features; it wouldn't satisfy my side of the relationship. Sorry :/

[Sage]

Independence. I can't fucking stand needy people. They need to have infinitely more going on in their life than the desire to be in a relationship.

[SuperSuraj]

pros:
personality is the most important thing imo, i don't want to talk to an extremely hot bitch, because every time i look past her exterior theres nothing attractive about her. Then there is the smile <33333 i'm a sucker for a nice smile haha, and legs but looks arent super important to me.

cons: ^^^ yeah the bitchy i run the world attitude, be confident but not cocky and annoying please haha

[BigG]

I agree completely with LuckyLuke -BigG

[Contra]

I'd like a girl to be honest, funny, pretty, with a music taste similar to mine and I had never really thought about that but, like Tim said, independent.

My deal breakers would be a girl who's overweight and ugly (really shallow but...), someone who spends a lot of time on her cellphone, a girl who smokes and likes to party and drink hard. Oh, and someone who's biased and racist.

[Sage]

Vegans and vegetarians are a dealbreaker for me. I think it's a stupid and inconvenient philosophy.

[Lethe]

I want a nice guy, with a good personality. I don't care about looks. And he has to be faithful to me...

But who am I kidding? I can't get a guy so it doesn't matter. Deal breakers? To be honest, I shouldn't (and don't) have any.

[Blue63]

I can't get a guy so it doesn't matter.

Now, now, come on, with that attitude you won't get a guy! Have a little faith! You never know what may happen.

What's attractive to me? Imagination, willingness to look past normalcy, a little sense of adventure, and a backbone. Oh, and of course: beauty and brains (but these come in many forms).

Deal breakers? Arrogance, close-mindedness, and being inconsiderate.

[suicidenote.]

Well, I'm a sucker for blue eyes and nice teeth (:
I love a guy who can keep a conversation going or start one up in the midst of a silent moment.
GREAT sense of humor, can make me laugh and smile.
Independence, doesn't ask mommy and daddy for every little thing he needs.
Personal hygiene. Being clean and smelling nice is an important factor.
Smart.

Ah, deal breakers...
Too overweight. I don't mind a guy who has a little meat on his bones, but when he looks like a twinkie, I turn the other way :/
Someone who judges anything and anyone.
A horny sex freak.

[Lethe]

Now, now, come on, with that attitude you won't get a guy! Have a little faith! You never know what may happen.

I'm pretty sure even with confidence and happiness I wouldn't get a boyfriend. I'm not pretty, I'm not thin. That's who things required. At least the beauty is. And I'm not bubbly or outgoing. I'm quiet and calm and "intelligent". What guy wants that?

[Dog Desab]

Independence. I can't fucking stand needy people. They need to have infinitely more going on in their life than the desire to be in a relationship.

This. If I can make the girls world revolve around me then I already know it's gonna be over. Now I'm just using her for her body. (terrible I know but I'm a guy I'm sure we all have a universal need for sex) I like when having a girl who respects my boundaries as well as hers. Need someone who can help support me when I need it most. We also have to be good friends before even going into a relationship. Other girls are just flings if we just met at a party. She must have something in the looks department and def a personality to match. Someone trustworthy. There are alot of things I specifically look for in a person I can't nail them all down.

[Blue63]

I'm pretty sure even with confidence and happiness I wouldn't get a boyfriend. I'm not pretty, I'm not thin. That's who things required. At least the beauty is. And I'm not bubbly or outgoing. I'm quiet and calm and "intelligent". What guy wants that?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You don't need to be pretty and thin. Pretty and thin are both two relative terms. I know guys that see an excited girl and roll their eyes. There are plenty of guys that like quiet, calm and intelligent! You need a little self-esteem. Who cares what a guy wants! Be you for you, not for some mythical guy. Confidence, dear. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPxY80-DV4E&feature=related

[Lethe]

Who cares what a guy wants? I'm not sure if I can even comprehend that sentence...

From reading most of these posts, I can make the educated guess that most guys care about looks WAY more than personality. No guy would date someone who wasn't pretty. I have none of the attributes guys want in a girlfriend. Which is why I'll always be single.

[Lawliet]

I can make the educated guess that most guys care about looks WAY more than personality.

Except the exclusive few who care about them equally, or the ones who prefer vice versa.

[sarahtheweber]

Required- Fun, loving personality; Nice laugh and smile; Moderately intelligent.

Deal Breakers- Obese (I'm fine with overweight); Absolutely obsessed with sex; Short; No sense of humor; JUDGEMENTAL.