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Blue63
June 30th, 2011, 01:24 AM
Hey everyone!

This story is short, I promise you. However, it starts around two or three years ago. I met a girl, fell head over heels for her, and she didn't like me back. Of course, being the dumb little boy that I was, I did not realize this. I spent two years (summer of eighth grade to the end of sophomore year) obsessed with her, attempting to flirt and establish a relationship. I'm now going into my senior year and that girl is my best friend! That, of course, I am thrilled with and is not the problem. After realizing, at the end of my sophomore year, that this girl was not for me, I spent the year off. I was somewhat emotionally stunted and had no desire to start chasing girls again. Now it's the summer before my senior year and I finally feel ready again! In fact, I even may have met a girl! She's cute and smart and I think we have a lot in common. While I hardly know her, I suddenly realized...I forgot how to flirt! Now, maybe I never knew how to flirt, but my point is I seem to have forgotten how to attempt to build a relationship. How did I get this girl to like me? I was never an expert in the first place, but I seem to have grown more inept! Any tips on how to successfully woo this girl? I'm open to all suggestions, the simple and the complicated! Thanks for reading and thanks for the help!

Matt

Dark_Desires
June 30th, 2011, 01:39 AM
just be open and honest and flirting to me
is something that happens so just
beyourself and talk to her ask her out
its how i got my 1st GF

Blue63
June 30th, 2011, 08:50 PM
Thanks! I guess just let what happens happen? Well, I hope that goes well. Can't seem to stop thinking about the need to be "charming", whatever that means. Hope for the best!

Contra
July 1st, 2011, 08:28 AM
Just grab her butt. I'm kidding, don't do that!

I'd suggest talking to her about her and yourself too, show her you are a good listener, that you care about her and that you are honest.
Well, and try to be a bit charming during those conversations too. ;)

Charleigh
July 1st, 2011, 01:14 PM
Just slap her ass and slip a note in her pocket with your number. There you go.

Blue63
July 1st, 2011, 10:24 PM
Hahaha thanks for the tips guys! :) Don't force anything, but don't be an idiot! Thanks!

northskater110
July 1st, 2011, 10:28 PM
While you are at it, punch her right in the teeth.

But be yourself, and keep giving her the notion that you care about her, maybe by letting her go before you in line, picking up things she dropped, etc.

Blue63
July 1st, 2011, 10:35 PM
keep giving her the notion that you care about her, maybe by letting her go before you in line, picking up things she dropped, etc.

I think that's where I've dropped the ball before. I've been told that I wasn't "interested enough" which wasn't true, I just didn't show it. I think that you're right here, that it is the little things! Thanks for the tip!