Fight

[Kathryn Ann]

My boyfriend and I got into a fight today.
It was because of my views compared to him.
There was this model in this magazine and I could clearly see her big fat pudge of a stomach
and I said she was fat.
He protested...
saying that she wasn't fat at all.
She was REALLY skinny.
Anyways, it turned into a fight today kind of.

He doesn't understand why what he sees as too skinny,
I see as incredibly fat.

How can I explain to him that because of my "condition",
my views are different from him?
How can I show him that, to me, that model IS fat.
Even if she only weighs a total of 105 pounds, if that?

[Kuraudo-sama]

It would help if you post the model image. But by the sounds of it he is right. For some reason girls seem ot have very different views on fat then men do. I'm not trying to be offencive or anything. But it's like some girl could say "Oh! She is fat she you can't see her bones." and a I will say "Uh, are you sure. She look normal too me.". But it could just be the all the girls that I've ever met that think like that.

[Kathryn Ann]

I am aware that I have a warped view of beauty and thinness.
I know this.
It's because I have an eating disorder
and, to me, anything more than bones IS fat.
I can't help that.

I just need a way to get him to understand this.
I don't know.

[Kuraudo-sama]

Oh, well I dunno have you tryed saying. Hay I have an eating disorder so too me she looks fat. Cause I mean it's not that hard....or maybe it's not. I dunno maybe it's a female thing.

[Hyper]

Just tell him whats wrong with you and I hope you have sought help..