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juanp
June 29th, 2011, 10:03 PM
ok so : i met a girl last weekend and i invited her to the cinemas and to restaurants, we have kissed many times this week. Last night she started to touch my dick and she gave me a h/j ,we almost had sex if her parents hadnt arrive in that moment :mad:. I really feel like we are going to have sex soon:eek: :confused:

so:
if you are NOT a virgin:
_how long i took you to cum the first time you had sex ??
_should i worry?:confused:
_what if i cum too fast ??
_do you know if exists a lube that if you use it you wont cum so fast??
_ advice!!!!!

if you are a virgin:
__ at what age would you have sex??
by the way im 15 !

Unlucky_Leprechaun
June 29th, 2011, 10:34 PM
Dude, just go slow and it will all be OK. I am sure that she knows you are a virgin? You are not expected to be a porn king already. Things will work out. Remember that she will be just as nervous (or was her first time). So do not worry about how long you last..if its for the right reasons, she will enjoy it also. Condoms assist in the sensation felt (physical NOT emotional)and should help...use them to protect yourself from STD's and unwanted pregnancies. Good luck

LuckyLuke
June 29th, 2011, 11:07 PM
I'm a virgin.. (age 17)

I'd have sex only when I've met someone that I truly and sincerely care about and have dated long enough (few months) to know that I really do like this person for who they are and know that they like me back for the same reasons.

HOLEinyoursoul
June 29th, 2011, 11:55 PM
Just be cool about it. Don't get all hyped up and you'll last a good while :) If you cum too soon just go along with it. If she knows it's your first time she should be ok with it.

SuperSuraj
June 30th, 2011, 12:06 AM
I'm a virgin.. (age 17)

I'd have sex only when I've met someone that I truly and sincerely care about and have dated long enough (few months) to know that I really do like this person for who they are and know that they like me back for the same reasons.

I'm 16 and i feel the same way, so idk i wouldnt but if you're ready and comfortable go for it i guess

prob1996
June 30th, 2011, 12:08 AM
That's awesome! :lol: yeah, just play it cool and kinda go with it. I'm a virgin so sorry no expierence to share but I thnk if you are both ready and safe, then don't worry too much about how long you'll last and you will be fine!

mikeymike
June 30th, 2011, 02:18 AM
Be very sure that you are not rushing into something that you will later regret

Liveoak
June 30th, 2011, 05:30 PM
No advice from me, but I gotta say I'm jealous. You should be jazzed...! Does she have a sister for me?

biboy96
June 30th, 2011, 05:36 PM
use two condoms, to make you less sensitive, and you'll last longer.

Wisdom from American Pie 1 :P

CarolinaDude
June 30th, 2011, 05:44 PM
Lol I'm jealous too! And I'm a virgin with no experience, sorry I couldn't help ya! But I don't think you should worry about it TOO much, just be natural I guess.? lol

oops i re-read my post and didn't understand what i was saying so ignore that "natural" last part and just be easy and take it slow. There's no need for any kind of rush from what I've heard. And it's okay to be nervous.

:)

Orton220
June 30th, 2011, 06:27 PM
Just go with the flow. Keep in mind that she will be nervous as well. And is she a virgin? cuz if she is then yall will be on the same playing field. If not, she will NOT expect you to know everything your first time. It will be her job to take control and show you. Which can be amazingly pleasurable

juanp
June 30th, 2011, 07:22 PM
haha im in colombia

TaNei
June 30th, 2011, 11:19 PM
Making love is not only with the penis!!!

Don't rush it like a dog! Go slowly, kiss her, touch her, tell her nice things, do her some oral job, after all this she will not even mind if you cum in 5 seconds. Actually they don't care much about that.

Remember: Before the penetration there is a lot of thing you can do