My sister...

[mtime]

This is a little embarrising (spelling) but I need the advice. I am a boy, but this question is about my sister and what I should do. Sometimes when I walk into our computer room, my sister will shut out of something really quick, I got suspicious and I one day I caught her looking at pornography,I was really upset because she was looking at females, and she is only 10. On our computer each of my family members has their own account, and sometimes I get onto my sister's account and check her history.And there are pornography sites, and some of the things she searches for on google are way inappropriate.

I am stuck because my parents dont know. I want to tell them to stop anyother things that might occur from this. But if I tell my mom or someone she might not believe me, and it would be really weird, I wouldnt know how to explain it. What do you all think I should do?

[Kathryn Ann]

Leave her and what she does in PRIVATE...well, private.
You did it, didn't you?
She's just curious.
We all go through a curious stage.
Why should you stop her from doing what you did/do as well?
Leave her alone.
What she does in private should be kept, as I said before, private.

[Kuraudo-sama]

If it upsets you then talk to her in private. If not let her do her own thing. Also to Kathryn Ann it really depends I mean if it was drug sites them maybe you should do something.

[DouggyO.o]

Leave her and what she does in PRIVATE...well, private.
You did it, didn't you?
She's just curious.
We all go through a curious stage.
Why should you stop her from doing what you did/do as well?
Leave her alone.
What she does in private should be kept, as I said before, private.

I agree 100%

[Underground_Network]

Unless your sister is purchasing porn with like a fake credit card or something or doing stuff online that could get her in trouble (with the law persay) i think you should leave her alone. If she gets in trouble with your parents, its her fault not yours. If you intervene you may end up feeling guilty if your little sister gets in trouble because of you. Your better off not getting involved.

[Cap'nCrunch]

I don't think you should tell on your sister. Tell her that she shouldn't be visiting those kinda sites and threaten to tell your parents (but don't actually).

[123456]

I would suggest just staying out of it

its a natural thing to be curious at that time in life and there's no point to get her in trouble.

only thing she should be noted is if she is doing something against the law which she doesn't seem to be doing....

[chelsea714]

when I was 10 years old I did that also...like everybody else suggested, just leave her be unless she is doing something illegal and save her the embarrassment

[Elscire]

it happens to all of us, we all experienced this stage. if you did told your parents and they did believe it, she will be your worse enemy for life. but the next time you see her closing out on a site, tell her to be more careful and don't get caught by mum or dad

[Underground_Network]

If you want to talk to her, discuss (not in detail) your experience with porn (if you've watched it), and discuss the consequences, but don't sensationalize things and don't make it seem like you're invading her privacy too much... Pretend you accidentally stumbled upon it and that you weren't actually searching her history. Just don't say, "If you get caught mom and dad are going to kill you", or "You could get in really big trouble", just tell her to watch out and be careful about what she looks at. Its her life and its her choice.

[Sapphire]

Leave her and what she does in PRIVATE...well, private.
You did it, didn't you?
She's just curious.
We all go through a curious stage.
Why should you stop her from doing what you did/do as well?
Leave her alone.
What she does in private should be kept, as I said before, private.

QFT

[DestroyTheFuture]

look, first everyone, looking at porn when your 10 IS illegal. thats why, when and if you try to look at pron sites, it says you have to be 18 to enter. if your parents caught your sister looking at porn, they could get her arrested. anyways...


dude, this is what you say.....

"__________ what are you doing? what were you looking at?"
your sister-"nothing just stay out of it."
you-"were you looking at porn?"
your sister-"no"
you-"look, even if you werent, i know you are. ive caught you before and i have evidence of you doing it. if mom and dad find out about this, you could go to jail. (then lie a little) every month, mom and dad get an internet bill that shows all the sites that we all looked at and who saw them. you need to stop now otherwise mom and dad will find out and you might get arrested and go to jail."


then tell her that she needs to stop lezzing out and just tell her if she likes porn so much then she should be on the streets trying to get live porn haha.

seriously though, dude what i told you to say will work.

[Underground_Network]

Well if shes actually purchasing porn, then i sort of agree with Stefan, but if its free, and you think your parents will take it lightly if they find out, let it go, let your sister do what she wants. Her mistakes are just that, her mistakes, not yours, don't let her getting in trouble get you into trouble. You're better of staying out of it. And by the way Stefan, you don't go to jail at the age of 10, it would be juvie.

[punkvegita]

you should show her all the good porn sites

[schrei jess]

Everyone looks at porn underage, no big deal - she's a little young, but I saw porn for the first time at ten as well...granted I wasnt looking for it, but still.

And her parents wouldnt arrest her for looking at porn you moron, why would say that?! That is @ stefen...

Just let your sister be, as long as she isnt buying it, she's fine. She is just curious and has the right to explore things.

[DestroyTheFuture]

no you got what i said wrong...i told him to just tell her that she'll get arrested and go to jail. and when you go to juvie, you still get arrested. hell, you get arrested if you get in a fight at your highschool's football game.

also, to you bedroom eyes, some parents really take the law on a strict basis. your parents might be lenient, but my parents suck ass when it comes to that. they get mad at my 20 year old brother for trying chew when its perfectly legal and they were considering counseling for it. some parents are just crazy enough to turn their children in for stupid things when its not that big of a deal.

for the record, i looked at porn when i was 10 too...limewire is great for that :)

[Sapphire]

Just be a good brother. Leave her be.
But, if you feel you really must say something then just say that you know she's been looking at it. Reassure her that it's ok to be curious. Don't tell your parents.

[Gamebreaker]

Its best not to get her into trubble. If you did tell she would get whooped by your parents as well

[Underground_Network]

I bet everyone whos posted on this thread has done something that could get them in trouble with their parents, and quite possibly even done something illegal. As long as its not big, don't tell on her. If you've looked at porn, or maybe done something your parents didn't like and gotten away with it, then let her too. As long as she's not buying it, let her be. And Stefan, your opinion is not everyones, give some facts, your saying its illegal, but i've never seen anyone get in trouble.

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

dont turn her into ur parents. maybe she wasnt looking at girls for her sexual pleasure, maybe she's just curious. around 10 is when people start having Sex Ed in school so maybe she was just curious about when a womans body would look like after puberty (porn is a bad example of this....but its something). if ur real concerned, talk to her. if u feal its that bad then deal with it urself, dont leave it to ur parents if u feel something's tat bad

[Popcorn15]

I don't think you should tell on your sister. I mean, when I was 10 or 9(maybe even 8 I think), a pop-up came up on my computer and it had all sorts of porn pictures. I kind of looked at it a while and then like your sister, I kind of took a peek at porn sites. I guess I could just say that I was curious. Remember, your sister is a girl and well.. Young girls are soon to become a woman, and I guess she just wanted to look in on it a little. Just simple curiosity.

[bmoy1920]

i think that u should let her look...she is just curious....and maybe u should look at it with her...that will scare her out of it

[gamerdude12]

what ur sister does is her problem. and take advantage of the sites she goes to, they mite be good!

[ThatCanadianGuy]

lol u distgust me:)

[ViolinPro]

you should show her all the good porn sites

wtF? is this person crazy? maybe thats the reason he/she was banned:confused: :mad: :confused: :eek:

[Fiending_the_freedom]

around that age i looked at female porn, shes curiose like every one eles said.
its perfectly fine, theres nothing wrong with it for guys, theres no differnce for girls

[Iron]

The younger you are, the more curious you are about both sexes. Leave what she does alone, it's ok.

[vinnyuboy]

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO a 10 year old girl should not be researching these kind of things the younger girls know about sex acts the younger they are ganna wanna try them thus doing them thus taking a risk of std's aids' pregnantcy

[Maverick]

Please do not bump old threads. Thanks.